So wondering if I should be concerned.. after the miscarriage on the 18th. I have noticed that my SO has pulled away a bit. he still kisses and hugs me, still lays his head on my chest until we fall asleep or I need to move. but he used to lay so close to me and hold me at night.😞. the last 4 nights I wake up and he is in the opposite side of the bed. I know we are going through a lot. I talked to him on Father's day after we did the balloon release. he did get some feelings out and cried with me. I'm just worried. I don't want to lose him.😭😭😭.
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Yes try talking to him. Tell him that you two will get through this together. Don't try to be too persistent but just let him know that you're there and that you know he's hurting. And let him know that you love him. 💕
thank you @mommyofcohenjayceandmatthew. as I've been through this loss before this is his very first. i am sure he is taking this harder than I am. just hate to see him like this. but I guess I just have to give him time and space but also let him know I am there for him.
thank you @bishop0301. I'm sure it's him hurting in his own way. as I said before and know. he is not one to open up and talk much about his feelings. took me a long time to do the same. just wondering if there is anything else I can do. I love him so much and I can't imagine my life without him. and I hate to see him hurting and just holding it in.😞. he has 2 days off starting tonight.. should I try to talk with him again?
Let him grieve on his on time and how he wants he will come around. When our son passed away my husband had to do his own healing even though we healed together as well he still needed to be by himself that was 5 years ago going on 6 on Aug 19 and we still have our hard days. We now have a 4 year old daughter and I'm having our son in 7 weeks.
He's probably just hurting in his own way. We expect our men to trust that they can tell us when they hurt but in reality they try to keep a straight face. I'm sorry for your loss. It's probably just really tough on him as it is on you. I doubt it has anything to do with you. Praying for you two and your baby 💕😔
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So hubby played a nasty April fool's joke on me. He acted like baby was in the carseat and dropped it. today I finally got him back . He was laying in bed watching a video and I was "still sleeping" I started acting like I was having a seizure his face was priceless. I have no idea how we are still together after all the cruel things we do to each other 😂
We finally did it after 10 months!!!!
Hey ladies question so I’m messing with this guy and me and him been talking for a minute and we have been having sex and like some stuff is off like he don’t want me at his house and he’s 30 and like he comes round only at night time and like after we done having sex he hurry up and wash his self off like his face and mouth and penis with soap and when we kiss he want me to wipe my lipgloss off first
Does these sound like signs of him cheating and him having someone back at home ??????
So last night my husband pretty much told me that if I don't have sex with him that he would cheat on me....I was like wtf. I was like you would seriously cheat on your pregnant wife?! I also told him that if he cheats on me I will NOT hesitate to file for divorce. I don't need my girls growing up thinking that cheating is ok. This was after we tried to have sex but it hurt too much so I told him to stop. When it comes to sex my husband only thinks about himself lately!!!! 😒😒😒😒
thank you @bishop0301. yes he is home now catching up with friends on Xbox. letting him have his space but might see if he wants to watch a movie in a bit. he also brought home a few beers. don't mind him drinking he don't do it often. I know this is his way of coping