So wondering if I should be concerned.. after the miscarriage on the 18th. I have noticed that my SO has pulled away a…
So wondering if I should be concerned.. after the miscarriage on the 18th. I have noticed that my SO has pulled away a bit. he still kisses and hugs me, still lays his head on my chest until we fall asleep or I need to move. but he used to lay so close to me and hold me at night.😞. the last 4 nights I wake up and he is in the opposite side of the bed. I know we are going through a lot. I talked to him on Father's day after we did the balloon release. he did get some feelings out and cried with me. I'm just worried. I don't want to lose him.😭😭😭.
Jasmine Siqueiros·
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He's probably just hurting in his own way. We expect our men to trust that they can tell us when they hurt but in reality they try to keep a straight face. I'm sorry for your loss. It's probably just really tough on him as it is on you. I doubt it has anything to do with you. Praying for you two and your baby 💕😔
Courtney Warner·
Мама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
Let him grieve on his on time and how he wants he will come around. When our son passed away my husband had to do his own healing even though we healed together as well he still needed to be by himself that was 5 years ago going on 6 on Aug 19 and we still have our hard days. We now have a 4 year old daughter and I'm having our son in 7 weeks.
Heather·
Мама четверых детей
thank you @bishop0301. I'm sure it's him hurting in his own way. as I said before and know. he is not one to open up and talk much about his feelings. took me a long time to do the same. just wondering if there is anything else I can do. I love him so much and I can't imagine my life without him. and I hate to see him hurting and just holding it in.😞. he has 2 days off starting tonight.. should I try to talk with him again?
Heather·
Мама четверых детей
thank you @mommyofcohenjayceandmatthew. as I've been through this loss before this is his very first. i am sure he is taking this harder than I am. just hate to see him like this. but I guess I just have to give him time and space but also let him know I am there for him.
Jasmine Siqueiros·
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Yes try talking to him. Tell him that you two will get through this together. Don't try to be too persistent but just let him know that you're there and that you know he's hurting. And let him know that you love him. 💕
Heather·
Мама четверых детей
thank you @bishop0301. yes he is home now catching up with friends on Xbox. letting him have his space but might see if he wants to watch a movie in a bit. he also brought home a few beers. don't mind him drinking he don't do it often. I know this is his way of coping