It's horrible haha but I did notice when one nurse did it it didn't hurt as bad as when the other nurse did it so maybe it just depends on how they do it? I would get checked by the one that didn't hurt me (she was training) then the one who did hurt me to make sure she was right. I told her only the training nurse could check me from that point on but they didn't go for that 😂

@maciecakes, aw dang it.. The dr I saw told me that the further dilated you are, the less painful it feels... She was like "alright, relax your legs.. I got to get behind his head" and I was seriously scared 😂 I wanted to ask if he had a big head

It hurts just as much when you are dilated lol at least in my opinion. That was one of the worst parts about labor to me 😩