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Alyssa Malloy
alyssabrittany
Alyssa Malloy·Мама сына (9 лет)

Thinking of a way to approach my boyfriend about me not going back to work after baby, and just focus on school. I have a degree already but I'm just not satisfied with my pay and I want to change careers. When I say it out load it just sounds selfish though. The only reason I'm considering it is because he just graduated from his 5 year apprenticeship and that comes with a huge raise and he'll be more than 100,000 a year if he keeps steady work, and I think that is reasonable to live off of for a little while that way I can go back to school and be making waaaaay more than I make now, the sacrifice I think will be waaaaay worth it. Idk if he'll go for it though.

23.06.2016
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deafmama16
Keora Willis·Мама двоих (8 лет, 9 лет)

I understand but if he not on board than it shouldn't stop you from doing what you think is best, he should see where you're coming from and why. Good luck mama

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alyssabrittany
Alyssa Malloy·Мама сына (9 лет)

That's my other thing too, I know I'm going to want to be home with him. My mom is suppose to be watching him when I go back to work, but she already has so much on her plate with taking care of our uncle with Alzheimer's and I don't think it's fair to be putting all that stress on her! @deafmama16

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deafmama16
Keora Willis·Мама двоих (8 лет, 9 лет)

You will want to spend more time with the baby as soon he or she comes and you can still do school just at home if it works for you. As a parents we have to make sacrifices to do better in life for our child so hopefully he be on bored with it.

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