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Paige
Paige
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Today I put up my first belly pic and 3d ultrasound onto instagram which led to me being put down by…

Today I put up my first belly pic and 3d ultrasound onto instagram which led to me being put down by someone who means alot to me.. and others who should have been excited to see the picture but instead were mad/uncomfortable. Sometimes it really gets to me the unkindness of others and makes me question what is going on in their lives that makes them so hard and that's when I begin to feel sorry for them.

I refuse to treat my child like he is something to be hidden or ashamed of, and I wish that I had the confidence earlier on to have posted such pictures but I was so caught up in trying to please everyone around me that I forgot to care for my feelings first.

I love my son so much already and my excitement to see him is so great. I just wish that I didn't have to worry or be nervouse about possible drama that could be caused by others around me and just enjoy these last few weeks and his arrival.

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momma_beffers

momma_beffers

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what is their problem?

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pmlew96

Paige

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@momma_beffers, That I'm pregnant😔

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momma_beffers

momma_beffers

Мама сына-младенца

and? is it your age? the dude?

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momma_beffers

momma_beffers

Мама сына-младенца

I don't know people well. I have 0 friends

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housfullofgrls

Jessie

Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

Block those people and get them out of your life. You don't need negativity

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pmlew96

Paige

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@momma_beffers, my age, my bfs age, anything to do with me being public about my pregnancy

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pmlew96

Paige

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@babes101116, I wish I had the back bone, but I don't. Unfortunately it's not just kids my age their other adults who I use to have alot of respect for

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pmlew96

Paige

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@graysonsmama, I completely agree. And it's not so much I care about being judged at this point it's just the fact that it's almost like they go out of their way to put me down or make me feel bad about myself

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momma_beffers

momma_beffers

Мама сына-младенца

I was never judge :/ I got pregnant at 19 with a 36 yo. Can't tell he's old. everyone loves him. I don't get ppl.

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bugmama

Alex

Мама сына (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)

Don't let anyone put you down you will be a great mom. I'm 24 and pregnant with my second blessing. I had my first (my son ) a month before I turned 20. I have worked really hard to be a wonderful mother sometimes it can be extremely trying, but keep your head held high and don't let any of them know they get to you. Prove to them all of the discouragement only made you a stronger better mother.

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winnie633

Cindy

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That's the reason I stopped posting stuff on any social networks...all the damn drama people cause...that's why i love @preggie_usa it's true we don't know anyone personally but everyone here always has a nice thing to say or give advice anyway they could, if I don't have something good to say, I don't comment...all of us here are mothers or mothers to be, we're either strong, weak, young, teenagers, single, separated, married, widowed, happy or hurting, we're here for each other, not to put other's down...they judge others and not themselves... @pmlew96 we're here for you girl, stay far away from those a**holes

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pmlew96

Paige

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@bugmama, thank you, it's just so hard sometimes. Expecially when trying to understand, their thought process. Yes I'm 19, and yes accidents do happen but this baby has become so important and such a big part of my life already. And I just don't understand why, while he is in my belly growing he is seen as an inconvenience to others but once he is here they are excited. It hurts, but I'm learning to live with it😔

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mom.life_usa

Moms of the US, unite!

Мама дочки-младенца

@winnie633, 😊if someone is rude here, please let us know. All pregnancies/mothers are beautiful.

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pmlew96

Paige

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@winnie633, thank you and yes I can agree this app has been nice to be able to post and wrote about things that are going on with myself and my baby. if I were to do that anywhere else I'm sure I'd be more upset than I was today. But I guess In the end those who hurt us are the ones who need the prayers the most and I'm doing what my best to understand that before I judge or get upset by their actions

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mom.life_usa

Moms of the US, unite!

Мама дочки-младенца

@pmlew96, ❤️

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pmlew96

Paige

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@preggie_usa, ❤

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cococutie316

Amber Perkins

I didn't tell ANYBODY I was pregnant until month 5 & let me tell you,my family had a fit but at the end of the day..A baby is a blessing & Anyone that things otherwise u don't need in your life 💕💕 positive vibes only

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pmlew96

Paige

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@cococutie316, I couldn't agree more❤

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winnie633

Cindy

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@pmlew96, the ones who hurt us are really the ones who need prayers, they're miserable and want others to be miserable to, just remember, (and i try to tell myself this everyday) when you hurt, cry or stressed, your baby feels it to. Let's put those idiots out of our mind and concentrate on baking our beautiful HAPPY healthy babies😘👶

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