I don't blame you ONE bit. All you can do is set boundaries and consequences. If he doesn't abide by that, then gotta stick to the consequences you set up. Hopefully with you standing up for yourself it will make him change his methods, knowing he can't manipulate you. Lessons learned from counseling, cause I've been there myself 😬 ❤️ you got this momma

@evococa, right! to me its straight up manipulation. my ex husband was abusive in every way, I refuse to have someone that is in any way shape or form like that, and that's how he's acting. I don't want him in the baby's life if he's going to be so manipulative.

He needs to go get help. Obviously he's got some issues, either with actual depression or control issues. Because that's a very controlling, manipulative way to go about trying to guilt you into taking him back. I agree with the ladies above, delete the app and write your letters to baby on another medium. If he finds another means to harass you with his depressing, manipulative BS, set some boundaries or block his ass again. You do not need to deal with that crap.

If he's depressed he needs to get help before he hurts himself or someone else

He's writing those just to get a reaction out of you. He wants you to feel a certain way because of what he's writing. Manipulation at its finest. Guaranteed if you were to take him back he wouldn't act the same as what he's been writing. I would honestly just ignore it. If he really truly wanted to be in your life he would be making more of an effort.. More than just typing words on a screen.

@lumos.nox, I don't get what his issue is. he can't do anything yet because I'm pregnant, nothing much for him to do. but he has two sons that I'm sure he's just ignoring (shit he did it even when I was there)