Rant
So annoyed. I posted a video on Facebook of my daughter crawling (she started yesterday) and my fiancé's aunt goes commenting negatively about it saying it's not a good thing and I won't want her crawling now that she's started.
Wtf? I'm posting this celebrating and excited and you come at me with that crap? And then my fiancé's other aunt comments saying "you're totally right Stacy" wtf??
I commented back saying how it IS a good thing and especially because my baby has extreme separation anxiety it will really help us since she can get to me when she wants now and I don't have to constantly carry a 8 month old, 21 lbs baby. Also, now that she can crawl, she can keep herself occupied more and be more independent. Just so annoying. There's always that one person who has to open their mouth and be negative. Sorry rant over lol
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how is a baby crawling a bad thing? that a big milestone and such a joyous moment for a mother to see her child crawl
our elders always think they know better lol
yep pretty much! if you pay attention to what they say you'll go insane. @janlove
some people are just ridiculous with their comments. I usually just give them the eyeroll and keep it moving 😫 @mamesey @janlove
@janlove, exactly! Why would I want to delay my baby's growth?!
@chibibunnyx so true
it's like there's always a negative nancy around when you're a parent smh @mamesey
Omg I hate that!! Or when people tell you oh wait till he starts walking you won't ever sit down again trust me you don't want him walking! Wtf is that supposed to mean? I do want him walking and growing! I don't care if I don't ever sit again
@chibibunnyx, that's awesome! Yeah I don't understand why people make it negative. It's a good thing!
@mamesey, my daughter has been crawling since 8 months old as well. she's 10 months now she even knows how to get off our bed herself. they gotta grow up some babies do it faster than others its nothing negative at all!
@vb95, exactly what I was saying. Why is it worse that she will be a little more independent and able to move on her own? Yea I might have to be more careful about leaving things where she can get them, but if I have gates and no hazards, what's the big deal? Smh these women lol I just had to be nice because it's my fiancé's family. If it wasn't, I wouldn't have been so nice hahaha
@chibibunnyx, yup!! So annoying. Especially since it's not like I'm close to them and they're still rude to me about it
People are so negative, thinking that because she's going to be moving more now it's going to be harder for you. I don't know where they get that logic, she's meeting a big milestone that will help he become so independent. You handled that better than I would have!
People just never know how to shut up and mind their own business 😒 they'll be the first ones preaching if you got nothing positive to say stay shut but end up being negative themselves. 😐
@tatiananoelani, exactly! So annoying to hear the whole "oh just you wait, you'll hate it" bullshit. Truth is, they'll become more independent. Which is GOOD. Why would I want my baby to be too attached to the point where I can't leave her for 2 minutes to brush my teeth? She's 8 months old and I've never left her side for more than 1 hour. And that was 1 time when I had kidney stones in the hospital. And she was at the hospital in the lobby. I can't do ANYTHING without her because of how serious her anxiety is. Just so annoying that these bitches have to be negative.
I have twins and they're 5 months and I always say how I can't wait for them to crawl and all I hear is "oh thats gonna suck" "you're going to have the hardest time" when in really it is better cause they can occupy themselves instead of always wanting to be in your arms all the time
@lucyyxoxo_, seriously lol @hanna_lynn yeah I know idk what was up their asses.