Ok so I really need some advice π©
A few year ago I bought a flat and it's been rented out ever since but in the last week the current tenants have handed in there notice to say there gonna find a bigger place...So I told my mam I was planning on moving in with my OH ready for little mans arrival and she hasn't spoken to me properly since then. She told me she's here for me no matter what and I can come over anytime but other than that she just sits in silence when we're in the same room. I feel so guilty for moving but it's getting crowded and we need our own place.
Has anyone experienced this? How do I make her feel better and make sure she's ok?
(I'm an only child and my dad passed 9 year ago so when I leave it will be just her at home but she works 40-50 hours a week so I don't see her much anyway)
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The original plan was for my partner to move in to my mams house with us but he feels on edge just staying over because he knows it's never going to be his home. I just want her to talk to me about it but I always start feeling really guilty and just saying to hell with it I'll live at home forever x
It sounds like ur moms just sad to see her baby girl growing up fast and she's finding it hard to hide it which is normal. Just try and stay in contact with her so she doesn't feel left out of your life because you moving in with your partner will mean that when the baby comes you will become a lot busier than you are now and with her having you she knows what it's like when you have children. I moved cities to be with my partner and my mom found it very hard and still now and then will ask me to look for a home closer to her. If ur home is becoming cramped as well its best to move as I lived at home for a bit when I had my son and while waiting for my flat to be sorted and it was so stressful x
she's probably just a bit sad knowing that you are moving out and will be your own family unit and she will be alone @jasmineg2010. maybe you could reassure her that she won't be forgotten about xxx
write her a card @jasmineg2010 and explain ur not abandoning her ect and love her dearly as will her grandchild... she will just be upset xx