I'm a little nervous about my baby shower. I've never had any sort of party/get together in my…

Same here...mines on Saturday and I feel like I want to cancel it 🙈😂😂...I'm in two minds about turning up loool x

Lol I have to turn up, I arranged it. If I hadn't I'd of just bottled it and blamed it on pregnancy brain 🙈

@nadisha16,

This is why I didn't have one 😂🙈 @sweetsesame

I'm just gonna bite the bullet and get on with it. It's too late to cancel @nadisha16 @emma23g

lool fair enough...my sister and best friend are organising it for me and my sister says I have no choice loool...luckily mine is only for a few hours so I won't have to wait too long for everyone to leave lol x

Seriously try not to think about it. Just think that whoever comes you will make the most of it and that this is for your baby. I was supposed to have 60 people I made 50 sweetie bags, my friend made me 100 cakes. I had a lot of food and booked out a venue (luckily it was free) and only 25 people turned up after I gave them two months in advance. I regularly spoke to them about it and I was told they were coming. On the day and the day before all the excuses rolled in and not one of my people came (exempt from my little sister who I went to pick up by myself, otherwise she wouldn't have been there as she's 10) the majority of my partners people came which I didn't mind because I know them and we had a great time laughing and playing games. Everyone got involved with each other as well. I'm absolutely pissed at my family and friends as its so embarrassing because last year they know how hard things were for me and that this was for my rainbow princess. And I only chose immediate family so it's not like people could get an invite and think huh we hardly speak. But at the end of the day the people there really enjoyed them self, me and my partner and son looked amazing, so did the venue and we were fully supported by the people that came x

This also was the first time I have ever planned a party and its so much damn work when ur preganant, so keep ur head up and enjoy yourself regardless because u have worked too hard to let it go to waste x

Even though it's ur thing as well fob off some of the things on people lol like games, sharing our food 😂 people came asking me if they want me to help and they ended up running the games and just reporting back to me lol.

@thanks, you've been a great help @nadisha16 @ceecee190 it's only a couple hours so I should be fine, I'm using my work place as the venue so it's free just have to pay for food and it'll be served up for me. I guess part of the panic comes from not knowing if my cousin will be able to attend because she has a prior arrangement and I had to change my date so I can't be upset but she was going to be in charge of hosting cos she's quite a funny, bubbly people person unlike me 😬

Aww, don't even worry ur nerves will settle once you see people there enjoying themselves anyway ☺️ I hope you have an amazing day x

@ceecee190, thank you, about to send the dreaded reminders for the shower. Wish me luck and have a great day yourself x