how much spotting/ maybe pieces of mucus plug should I expect with a cervix check? I am cramping up really bad but triage already sent me home once today.
I have a really high cervix apparently.. Checks were the WORST! I always cried after. I don't know how much of the tears was hormonal, but it definitely hurt really bad. I bled the day of like a light flow period but that's all.
it hurt alot. like I was having even worse period cramps than before and now it's slight bleeding and some chucks of mucus I think.
@becky2121, I never had any spotting or pain with my two previous pregnancies when they checked me. Everyone is different tho! I'm 33 weeks and I'm not looking forward to being check this go around lol

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
so it's normal. just wanted to make sure I am not crazy