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sooo... I've been talking to this guy.. and I'm starting to really like him.. but I'm also kind of scared because my last relationship was just horrible.. I was treated like shit ..and now this guy treats me like a queen.. like he's so genuine! everything isnt about sex with him.. we can talk and laugh for hours and sex not be brought up once.. he listens to me and actually engages in the conversation as if he really cares how i feel lol.. but the problem is that he's old enough to be my father... he just turned 38 and I'm about to be 22.. that's a huge gap.. Idk how to think.. Idk what to do.. we're taking things slow but yet the feelings are there.. I just feel like we are completely on the same level.. so my question is..should I continue to pursue this or should I just leave him alone?
21.06.2016
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ileanasmami0625
I'm so happy for you ladies... I'm going to give it a try.. I just mentioned his age to my mother and didn't tell her anymore because I want her to meet him for the person he is not just what I tell her.. but from me just saying his age, she was like oh no!! he's too old! he might be a killer.. he might want to take advantage of u.. so I just left the conversation right there.. I didn't say anything else.. I want her to meet him.. not now lol.. maybe a couple months when things start to get serious..but yea.. @bianca_rose @mommy2b558 @lilysita11 @mommyof3littleones @winnie633 @vivalakats @bianca_rose @owynngenesmommy07316 thank you ladies for all the advice and actual experiences.. I'm a little excited to try something different..😊
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mommyof3littleones
chanel·Мама троих детей
That's awesome. Glad your happy. It took me 3 bad long relationships to find this good one and I wasn't even looking for him I was just there at the right place and time.
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vivalakats
Kathy·Мама двоих (9 лет, 12 лет)
You should do what your heart tells you. My husband is 34 and I'm 25. You're not going to be the first with the age gap and sometimes older men are more mature than the guys our age. Wish you luck!
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winnie633
Cindy·Мама сына (9 лет)
@mommyof3littleones, that's great hun. Even though being with my guy back then was great, if we hadn't broken up, I wouldn't have met my amazing husband a few years ago. Just like you, He also is 12 years older than me has 2 kids from a previous marriage, but we met, fell in love and now starting our own little family, he's away in another country cause of his work and won't be here for the birth, but it's a sacrifice we're willing to make, he's the best won't trade him for the world.
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mommyof3littleones
chanel·Мама троих детей
@ileanasmami06, my family was skeptical at first but he was very respectful towards them and he respected me. Now my family loves him.
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mommyof3littleones
chanel·Мама троих детей
@winnie633, yeah my husband had 2 kids already when we got together but he gave me 2 kids and one on the way and he is 40 now. But had my husband said he didn't want kids that would of been a tie breaker for me as well.
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lilysita11
Lilliana·Мама сына (8 лет)
Am 24 and my boyfriend the father of the baby am expecting is 43 and I won't change him for no young guy am in love with him and I give 3 Flying bananas what anyone thinks. If he makes u happy go for it.
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mommy2b558
Shannon·Мама сына (8 лет)
go for it but TAKE YOUR TIME!!!! GET TO KNOW HIM GIRL.
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bianca_rose
Bianca·Мама двоих (9 лет, 16 лет)
I say go for it!
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owynngenesmommy07316
my sons father has a ten year old. only downside is he sometimes acts too fatherly towards me like he knows more than me and tries to run the show. but it beats immaturity, anyday!
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ileanasmami0625
that's why I'm so attracted to him.. because he's not immature.. and he has 3 kids from previous relationships.. and he is also willing to have more once married if it gets that far.. but you guys are right.. age shouldn't be a problem.. I just don't want to be taken advantage of because I'm so young.. but yet he doesn't seem like that type at all.. @owynngenesmommy07316 @winnie633
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winnie633
Cindy·Мама сына (9 лет)
In other words @ileanasmami06 don't let age be a problem
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owynngenesmommy07316
I got with my sons father at 19 and he was 31./
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winnie633
Cindy·Мама сына (9 лет)
I was 21 and my bf was 46, we had 7 years relationship and only broke up because I wanted kids and didn't want cause he had from previous marriage...i agree with @mommyof3littleones, some young "boys" are so immature and such dickheads
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ileanasmami0625
this guy doesn't look like he's 16 years older than me either.. he looks older. of course..but deffinetly not like he's about to be 40.. Idk how my family is going to react either... I'm nervous lol.. @mommyof3littleones
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mommyof3littleones
chanel·Мама троих детей
I met my husband when I was 23 and he was 34. I hated guys my age they were so immature to me. my husband doesn't look like he is 11 years older than me tho.
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