I need yalls opinion on something. So my mom is buying all the stuff for her house ONLY. Pack &…
I need yalls opinion on something. So my mom is buying all the stuff for her house ONLY. Pack & play, bassinet, good bit of clothes, bath stuff shampoo, lotions etc. , washcloths & alot of other stuff. I don't want it to come to the point when she wants to watch the baby ALL THE TIME because me and my SO needs to bond with him because he's our child (Not to sound selfish) plus there's other family members that would like to keep the baby also ....like his side of the family. I don't want to have NO DRAMA when this baby comes. AUGUST 3RD will be here before we know it. This is the FIRST GRAND ON BOTH SIDES OF THE FAMILY, so I know she's excited. I just don't want to hurt her feelings because I know she has done a lot for us.
Madison·
Мама сына-младенца
she should understand if you talk to her. after all, she had a baby at one point too
Nicole Matthews·
to be very honest drama over babies is about impossible to advoid. and being selfish is impossible when it's your own child. never be sorry for wanting time with your own baby. best thing is to make sure she knows now rather than when the baby gets here.
Miasia·
Мама сына-младенца
There is nothing but drama from his side of the family when I comes to our child because everyone has an opinion on what we should and shouldn't do with him. Especially with his mom and grandmother. They both think the baby is theirs and try to tell me what they think is best and saying that when they come and visit the baby is going to be theirs the entire time.m, and ignore me when I rebuttal. Just tell your mom how you feel, but honestly her buying all that stuff and having it at her house for when she does have the baby is an excellent idea that way you don't have to load and chug everything when she does baby sit
Amanda·
Girl, be selfish! It's YOUR child. Grandma can just be ready for whenever you DO let her watch baby. If she wants to pitch a fit, let that lay on her. You didn't make her buy all that, nor give her the impression that baby would be spending that much time there as he would need it. She took that upon herself, and there's no reason for you to feel bad about that. Your child, your rules. Everyone else has to accept it or butt out IMO.
lorraine·
its sumtin thats hard to avoid. everyone wants the baby. everyone wants to put their 2cents in. everyone thinks they knw best. but u have to put ur foot down n say u appreciate her but the baby is both if urs and u have to bond with the baby and everyone needs a chance not just her.
lorraine·
i may add ima have that drama. my moms already jealous and this is my in laws furst grandchild. her older son passed and for her this baby is everything.