I have a child with an ex and I'd never do that. If my ex ever showed up to my house to see if he could stay for whatever reason I'd say no. That's kind of disrespectful. I don't mind my boyfriend still talking to his ex's has friends but we don't/he doesn't hang out with them or anything.
I wouldn't be okay with her staying at his house :/ but I don't know your relationship, I know relationships can be very complex! As long as you trust him that's what matters
@babes101116, @madibug96 he and I have a very complicated relationship we started dating when I was 28 weeks pregnant and he was so understanding about my issue with my ex so I'm trying to do the same for him. I trust him but idk what to do I don't want to say something and over step my boundaries
I wouldn't give a flying crap if she is the mother of one of his kids, an ex is an ex and should be treated like so. no one's gotta be nasty, but there are boundaries. she just sounds like she's trying to stir the pot o' shit
They have a 6 year old together who she by the way abandoned and he has sole custody of. It's her continuation today and she wanted to be there 😡 what's funny is his daughter said she wanted me to go and not her own mother