I just want someone that's serious about being a parent. Get a job, help me pay for daycare, save for a place the kids can call home. Yeah, it's great to be there for your kids physically and emotionally, but a lot of these dads lack financial stability and that is far from ok when you have kids. I'm tired of being the only one thats serious about money.. I'm tired of working 50-70 hour weeks just to pick up the slack. I'm just tired..