I went into labor yesterday. I went from a 0 to a 4 in 2 hours, and my doctor stopped me because I'm only 31 weeks. The doctor claimed that the hospital doesn't have a NICU, but that's why I chose this hospital, because the NICU care they have. I was alone because my fiance wouldn't get his shift at work covered. It was a hard night. The hospital is an hour away. I drove there, dealt with getting labor stopped, and drove home alone. And when I got home, my fiance didn't want to hold me. Right now I feel so worn out, so, ugh... and so unwanted. 😞
I'm sorry you had to go through that and by yourself. That hospital probably didn't have a level 3 NICU. How are you feeling now? When you're dilated anything over 3cm you should be admitted. But every Doc is different. Please be careful and stay on bed rest.
I went today and found out that the nurse who did the checking and told my dr over the phone what was going on wasn't honest with him. he sent me home again, but said if the pain doesn't stop i need to go in. they have a good NICU, the nurse just didn't want to deal with another baby right after helping another family have their baby. i filled out a complaint against her. I'm still in a bunch of pain, but not contracting.