sooo sick and tired of my boyfriend worried about what im going to be "successful" in for our daughter. But what about youu? what are you doing you have a lawn mowing business that you think is "popping." and you sell weed. omg wow. you dropped out in 9th grade but yet you want to be soo worried about me.. making it seem like i wont be able to provide for my daughter saying im wasting my time in college if i am interested in hair school. why not do bothh? get my basics/associates degree and do hair school if along the way of doing my basics i figure out hair school is my passion. i trust in god way to much that he will lead me where I BELONG. not where the $$ is. Sorry you want me to be a "doctor." but why dont u become one??? i know he just wants to know what im going to do but dont dog me everyday about it. i will be just fine i have faith. it just hurts my feelings cause the way he says things makes me feel like hes questioning if ill be able to provide for my daughter. well duh! i dont have to be a doctor to do that. like i say worry about yourselff. im sorry i just feel so emotional right now. and im talking to my daughter begging her not to quit loving me.. im tryingg the best i can to be successful, and to hold my tears back.
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exactly! i dont want to just settle i want to think and think hard about what i want to major in. its no rush! my daughter will love me just the same! @missliss thank u so much
@mareesan, I'm proud of you too! There are lots of people who don't even get that far. Trust me, don't rush. I originally thought I wanted to be a teacher, but then got experience and was like ummmmm no. Can you imagine if I had wasted student loans on that? I hear of too many people who settle because they want a career so they just pick what they think they want. Then 4 years later they have thousands in debt and they're miserable at their place of work. My mom didn't get her degree until my brother and I were in elementary school and I have never been prouder of her. She's my best friend. I don't care how long it took her. Your daughter will feel the same way, I know it ❤️
exactly!!! @missliss its super annoying. im only 20 years old! i dropped out for 6 months and choose to go back and graduate with class of 2015 instead of 2014. i made that decision on my own. im proud of myself for even doing that!
thank you so much ur so right @newmommy72816
Girl I'm 32 years old and I JUST figured out what I want to do for a living
thank you so much and as long as you believe in you and know God won't just leave you hanging you're good. i know you can do it!
thank you so much! that's what i am going to do for sure!! i believe in myself i just wish other people did but thats okay the lord and my daughter believe in me:) and wow congrats girl! im proud of u!
im a ftm too and not perfect by a long shot. we're going to mess up and feel like we've failed them at some point but the little kicks inside of us and the little smiling face when they get here is a reminder to keep pushing through use his words as motivation to keep going. i had the same thing happen to me when i was trying to get through school and when i wanted to get married before i finished but i used those words as a boost now i have an associates and a bachelors degree and married for going on 2 years all because i kept pushing through it aint easy but the joy and feeling of accomplishment afterwards is worth it
i know i will be just fine but for him to be so up my butt about what am i going to do as a mother to support her but yet he neeeds to worry about himself and quit selling weed like i keep telling him.. and thank you so much. my daughter is my worldd. i do everything i do for her and her best intrest. im a ftm and just wana get it right for her. i know im a good mom just when he tlks down saying im wasting my time doesnt do anything but putt me down instead of building me up likes he's supposed to.
if you believe in God all you need is faith the size of a mustard seed. your daughter will never stop loving you because she sees that mommy is trying to be an example and better herself and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that or getting your basics out the way do what you feel in your heart is best. pick your head up be strong and dont let anyone make you feel like what you're doing is wrong you are already doing an amazing job at being a mother and havent even realized it yet
You're very welcome 😊