I dont wanna be alone through this pregnancy anymore, it takes two people to make a baby why am I…

I felt the same way. My ex and I broke up and for the first 7 months of this pregnancy he was completely standoffish. Now that the baby is so close he has gotten a lot more involved in the last 2 months. We are still not together but I felt it makes such a big difference in my mood when he is more hands on with this. If you need to talk feel free to message me.

I'm alone too but when I sit and realize were better off without him. it's less stress and drama. my ex left when he found out and I've heard nothing from him since March. it's sad yes but as mothers we have a certain strength to us

thankyou :( the father was a guy i just had a thing with, we were never together. and all he does is ignore my messages and listens to bullshit his jealous 16 yr old girlfriend tells him.. @2to3mommy

Oh man. The only thing I could say is that in the beginning of my pregnancy I also felt like I didn't want to do this alone and didn't want another child. But as he gets closer to his due date I am so happy about his arrival. And I am hoping based on my other children that the 1st time I see him I will wonder how I ever gotten on in life without him. That is my experience. Also, idk if it will make you feel any better but I have a male cousin that I love but is an absolute male whore. He had a friend's with benefits situation with a girl for years until she got pregnant. He acted the same way with her, like ignored her, told her to get an abortion, had a "steady" young gf, etc. It took until the baby was about 6 months before he took interest. He is actually a very good dad now. They are not together but he takes his daughter when she needs him to and pays child support. I hope your guy wakes up for the baby's sake. Some men/boys just take longer. idk. sry, I wrote a book lol. @beanieboo

I really like that thankyou. I just idk if that will be the case, he is charged with two felonies and will probably be going to jail around the time the baby is born maybe before. @2to3mommy

Then you will def be more better off in the long run without him. I'm not gonna lie, being pregnant single SUCKS! If you have close family members or friends then I would suggest trying to keep busy with them. Time will pass. The emotions will calm down at some point. Don't be like me though and basically eat your feelings lol. For me, I just want to focus on my baby's arrival and getting back into shape. 😣😂 @beanieboo

i wont dont worry :) thanku just somtimes i get upset about the whole situation you know?! @2to3mommy

Sometimes being alone is better than being upset all the time. Being upset and stressed can hurt the baby and you don't want that.