Is anybody else not opening their gifts during the shower, or have you not? If so, did it still go over well and all that or did people get mad about it? I really don't like having a lot of attention drawn to me and I really don't want to open anything during the shower but my mom and best friend who are hosting it keep saying "well then you shouldn't be having a shower if you don't want to open everything while you're there." Even at birthday parties when I was younger, I just didn't like it.
I can completely understand why you wouldn't want to. people getting the same things or thinking they should have gotten something better or bigger. it's completely up to you though! it's YOUR shower not hers. do what YOU want to do. you aren't supposed to please everyone, do what you are comfortable with