ok. i have HUGE problems with my MIL because she kept getting so pissed off about us not letting her see Brantley because we wanted to spend time with him, keep in mind he JUST turned a month old today. well it ended up causing my husband and her getting into a big fight a while back ago well during that fight she wanted to call me awful names, saying i was taking her grandson away and him away and all of this other stuff. well then she wanted to message me and tell me she has never liked me because i'm younger then my husband and that pretty much she's just trying to like me since i got pregnant. okay, any person would hate to hear that and get upset. it's been a few weeks since this happened and she is getting pissed because i don't want anything to do with her.
well my husband works every single day except sundays, doesn't get home until 7pm sometimes. she will ask to see Brantley and we will say no because my husband is trying to spend time with him as much as he can. she will throw the biggest fit i've ever seen worse then my 3 year old niece. like okay i get it's her grandson she wants to see him but we're the parents we get to say on what happens. she's wanting to take him to church and coming by in the middle of the day (when it's just me watching him) and take him for a few hours and she gets SO mad because i'm not ready to leave him yet. i'm not saying going to church is bad and my and my husband are going to start going again when he's older but right now it's just not good.
she acts like she has never had kids before and doesn't get that right now i just want my baby. doesn't help that what she said about me still hurts me and that makes me want to protect my son because he's apart of me. she was doing good for a few days well then yesterday while me and the husband went to go grab a quick bite to eat we dropped Brantley off at his moms so she could see him without me having to see her, okay it went good we got home going to bed i checked fb to clear notifications and then i see this post. like why must you say stuff like that, idk i overreact about everything because i'm an very emotional person but to me she didn't need to say this AT ALL. it was not necessary.
this is one long stupid rant and nobody will actually read it all but i just cannot stand her anymore, i mainly don't "hate" anybody but she sure is pushing me towards it for her.
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wow that's so disrespectful. how does your hubby feel about his mom disrespecting you like that? I don't know why there so mean like if anything they should like us bc there son obviously loves us. but I don't know I try to stay away from in laws. to much negativity.
@_jasjxg, she seriously messaged me saying "i didn't like you until you got pregnant" like i guess that's what hurt me more. she's going to act like she likes me just because i was pregnant? i don't want my son around someone who doesn't like his mom and can talk crap about me. because the first time he ever comes home saying something that she said about me. i will draw the line. it just drives me insane because when we say no it's like you telling a 2 year old no
My mother in law never liked me because I was younger then my hubby too and thought I knew nothing. she was so disrespectful to me. I'd go to her house and she straight up dogged me and rolled her eyes. I'd still go bc I love my man and wether his mom liked it or not I was always gunna be around. she even said she wouldn't care my son and now she "loves " him and trys to like me bcoz of my son. my son should never be a reason for anything he's a blessing. just like your child is a blessing. plus ur baby is to young right now he needs you more then church time with grandma. she will get her turn but don't ever be scared to say no bcoz at the end of the day you're your child's mom and of course you can't leave ur hubby's feelings out. but girl you ain't doing nothing wrong 😃
@ilovemybabyluvs4, i can't cook. but my husband loves cooking so if we don't eat out then he wants to cook. we stayed with her for a week and i cleaned up after me and my husband she got pissed because i wasn't cleaning up after her or his brother. the only people i will ever clean up after is myself my husband and kids.
I guess I'm so horrible because I can't cook LOl I can make food just not authentic Mexican food since I wasn't raised that way but I can clean take care of my 4 kids and work at the same time so I think that makes up for not being able to make authentic foods lol I'm just not going to surround myself with them
@mamesey, it is annoying. i hate complaining about her to my husband by that's his mom but he's about had it with her too. @ilovemybabyluvs4 awhile back ago she told my husband i wasn't good because i wasn't a "house wife" keep in mind i'm barley 19 now so this is when i was like 17 almost 18 i believe and me and him were living with my mom so i never experienced the living on your own yet.
I'm just like watever and there is a baby shower today and I'm supposed to go but I'm not since everyone will be there that I don't want to see lol
What a bitch. My mom is exactly the same way. It's so fucking annoying
@ilovemybabyluvs4, oh gosh i feel like that would crush me more 😅 it's not like i'm like upset about it because i had a feeling she didn't but i didn't think it was actually true. we've been together for 2 years now. i just don't see how she expects me to be okay with her seeing my son after she disrespected me, she went out of her way and sent me a messaging saying it all. when her and my husband were having their own little fight.
I've just came to find out my mil Dosent like me after 6 years with him and married for 4 so I can totally understand! I feel as if u can't respect me then u cannot be around my child's.
@_jasjxg, i'm staying away from her as much as i can. i haven't seen her and i have made it very clear i don't want anything to do with her right now. he got beyond pissed off when she kept saying stuff, i told her if she didn't stop then their relationship would be done. i feel bad because that is his mom but i can't help that she doesn't like me just because i'm 3 years younger then him. i figured she would be happy because he is. oh and you know how people play fight well she thinks i'm abusive because of that 🙄