a couple days have past now where my best friend and i have completely stopped talking. i was so…
a couple days have past now where my best friend and i have completely stopped talking. i was so hurt.. 14 years of friendship just to end that way and how it all went down. i cried like a baby. because friendships, especially that many years, are like relationships so it was a break up to me. she was like my sister. the sad realization that i cared more and she didn't even really care as much. the broken promises of her being around my son and going to be such a good aunt to him. saw him once... never bothered to ask about him. bailed every time she was coming over to see him. just sucks. i didn't think this would happen to us because i really thought we were super close. but it did. i am thankful for my family. my wonderful son and the man i have in my life. whom i adore with all of my heart. without them and especially his support i wouldn't be able to move forward as quickly as i am. everyday it gets a little bit easier. having someone in your life as much as she was in mine and to be completely gone now. it's going to take some time. baby steps.
Sonia McCL·
Мама двоих (младенец)
maybe she is is going Tru stuff like wanting kids or jealousy
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@soniamccl, no not at all. also we never were jealous of each other or judged one another which is why we were friends all those years. we weren't fake friends. but being a mom now and her not being one... our priorities changed. different paths i guess. just a shock that our friendship ended bc we were actually great friends or well up until now at least I thought
Sonia McCL·
Мама двоих (младенец)
oh sorry I hope you work it out
Macie 🤘🏻 Simon·
Мама сына-младенца
It happens. A lot. My best friend had kids before I did and as much as I tried to stay in her life it was difficult. We had completely different lives and interests. We didn't end the friendship but we hardly spoke and never saw each other. But we've reconnected since I got pregnant and had my son. So don't completely give up hope on your friendship. Once her life changes you Guys could end up closer than ever.
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@maciecakes, i know it does seem to happen a lot i know im not the only one that has dealt or dealing with this kinda thing. I'm really happy for you that you've connected back with yours but the way my friendship ended with my friend seems sorta done for good. I do not see her coming around and putting any effort into trying or apologizing. I do hope it changes of course but I'm not going to wait for it either bc I know it's done.
Macie 🤘🏻 Simon·
Мама сына-младенца
I'm sorry :( yeah don't wait around for it that'll just end up hurting you in the long run but I hope she comes around and if she doesn't then you'll make a new best friend some day. 😊
missing234user·
Something similar happened to me too. A friendship of 10 years her family was my family i loved them so much until the day her brother and i fell in love with each other, her true colors came out. She said so many things that hurt me and our friendship went down the drain, her family also talked about me. But here i am 3 yrs later married to him and we have a beautiful baby. The family talks to me but i dont see them the same. The one who was my bff doesnt talk to me at all and i am glad. I dont believe in best friends
missing234user·
Till this day it erks me and i hate when my husband goes to their house i hate i have to take my baby to their house. It really does 😒
jenna tess·
One of my best friends (like 3/4 years ago) lost her mind and we "broke up". But, I understand! It's like a relationship..it's heartbreaking when those relationships end. I have found though that I'm so much better without her in my life. It took me a LONG time to accept it though.