so because I'm putting my child's father on child support and giving the baby my last name..he doesn't want to give me full custody..smh...I'm thinking about not telling him when I have the baby so that his name doesn't go on the birth certificate..but that would make me a bitch wouldn't it? smh... ughhh... I so fucking hate him right now!!
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@ileanasmami0625, that's not true. they do not automatically get their fathers last name. not in florida atleast. He will have to file for a name change and the only thing they will do is hyphenate the name.
Bol, trust me I understand...they take you there.
I don't think that's fully correct because my nephews father pays child support and does not have his fathers last name..but I do see what your saying.. to be honest ..I just rather not have him in my life at all to be honest... at this moment..I can not kill him with kindness..I'm not strong enough.. I more want to strangle the crap out of him and slap him around a couple times.. @santanna86
Once you put him on child support the baby automatically gets his last name and his name goes on the certificate. With child support you will be the custodial parent and he will be the non custodial parent. You have full custody but he also has rights until he fully signs them over. Don't know your situation but in my experience be the bigger person, and kill him with kindness. You don't wanna second guess or question yourself about a decision you made while being mad/upset.
You shouldn't let him, but I know it's a hard decision. It'll be a smack in the face for him and maybe that's what he needs
I didn't let my baby daddy know when his son was born. He left me when I was like 14 weeks and hadn't spoke to me at all until he knew I was about to have him so I didn't tell him and now my son has my name :) ... And he left us again lol but it's for the better
You dont have have to put him on the birth certificate even if he's there. All that is up to you mama! your mom.
Why should he get that damn privilege? ?????? he didn't care about you guys the whole time! I'm sorry but my ex hurt me so bad this pregnancy and stressed me and this baby out so much. I love myself and this baby way to much to allow him to even get that experience. he isn't worthy
really??? ughhh..I thought he had to sign it if he was there.. damn..now I don't know what to do?.. I just really don't wanna be a dick..I'm too kind hearted.. @lovebuggg2016
he's saying he's going to fight for partial custody..but I don't want to ask him for shit..I didn't everything myself this whole pregnancy.. he was just worrying about weed..and other females.. that's why we aren't together... I just would feel like a dick with this being his first child and him not seeing her be born ...@cubanese, @mommy2b558
If you're not married he can't sign unless you say so. Whether he is there or not. Plus, you fill all the paper work out when you go into labor so if he comes later he wouldn't know
I'm not telling him when I have the baby. I'm not letting him sign the certificate either. lol I just want him to disappear
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
My boyfriend is so upset that I didn’t give our son his last name but I have 4 other kids that has my last name I didn’t want to make him the only one with a different last name. Is that selfish of me? Or should he just understand. We not married
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
So I'm thinking of baby girl names , because I pray that baby number two is a girl 👑
My son's name is Eli & I would like for her to have an "E" name like my son.
So far I have three I like
Elle
Eva
Eliza
Short, simple and unique 😍 Any more you ladies can think of besides Elizabeth lol ?
@ileanasmami0625, just wanted to give you a heads up so you're not misinformed. Also, in florida child support and custody (family court) are two different things. If he goes for visitation they will make him pay but if he goes for child support then he will still need to file for custody seperately. Also, if he doesn't sign the birth certificate he will need to pay for a Paternity test.