im just gonna rant for a moment 🙃 it REALLY grinds my gears ( even before i got pregnant ) when girls post on facebook "…

true... I myself vowed to never have kids young.. I enjoyed my life, made a bunch of fuckups, still paying for them. .but that's my story... folks got to understand everybody doesnt want to follow the same path.. getting married at 35 and pushing out a kid.. lol my mom always told me that I should wait until I'm 30 to get married and have kids.. eh no.. lol

im perfectly content with my life and thats all that matters . i could care less if a woman didnt want kids ever . her life , her decision . women are just fucking assholes 😂 @lilfree16 .

yeah.. they think they KNOW everything. .. ive learned that during my pregnancy.. even women without kids have opinions.. like stfu

YES . every woman without kids or a boyfriend , husband , or fiancé . swear . @princesssskxo

I hate those comments too. They come from my young cousins so I can't even delete them lol. But I agree with you, when I found out I was pregnant it pushed me so hard to work at finding a nice job and I actually got a career in a law firm. And I'm 24! People will ALWAYS have some stupid stuff to say... No matter how old you are. 😓

i narrow it down to bitterness tbh @camsmommy16 .

I'm 19, I'll be 20 in December and I'm engaged. I've known the guy for 5 years and we've been through A LOT together. My daughter is my world and she makes me want to be the best that I can be. Also, I live in Ohio roo'

**too!!

🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 ive had people throw overpopulation in my face like stop youre trying too hard 😂 @lovebuggg2016 .

some people are ready to start a family sooner than others. i was a step parent at 17 to three beautiful children. and i just had my first. i was never a party girl and im an old soul. so everything was perfect for me. i married the love of my life and i have four beautiful children. i wouldnt trade that for all the parties in the world.

i used to " party " my freshman to junior year then i was just like what am i doing and settled down a lot . then things got serious with my fiancé and i and i started thinking about a house and kids and stuff . no man has ever had that much impact on me . our son wasnt planned but we damn sure dont regret it and are patently waiting for august for his arrival . @sierranichols

same here, he wasnt planned and i was in the er when i found out, no symptoms or anything so it was a shock. but its never a bad thing when you once partied and then found yourself wanting things like a house and kids. congratulations on your little one and i wish you and your husband a wonderful time and that your labor goes well. :)

when I was 19 and 20 I knew everything too!😂😂😂

im happy . were fine . keep negativity elsewhere @somanykids

but hey , bitterness is a common trait in women now a days ☺ so its okay . ill remember your negativity when im walking down the stage to get my degree , having my child , and walking down the isle next year 😂😂😂😂️ @somanykids

no worries, I was engaged at 16, married at 19, bought our first house at 20, graduated this year with a bachelor's and having our first baby in August. who cares when you meet the person you love as long as you meet them right lol

Girl, I PLANNED my pregnancy & got engaged at 19 & I got married at 20. I make $10/hour and my husband makes $15/hour. We have our own place. I can perfectly support a baby but apparently I'm not "fit to be a mom" because I'm "young". 🙄🙄🙄🙄

see . its possible . we met in very good circumstances and hes such an amazing person @tlw1596 . and omg @brit1335 . i know women probably the age of the woman runing her jaws on here who are horrible parents . horrrrrible . being a good mother and wife doesnt have an age limit 🙄

I also planned my baby lol sometimes being young does have disadvantages for a relationship, but as long as you're willing to learn and change and grow together that's all that matters

we are and we grow together every day @tlw1596 he gets on my damn nerves sometimes but i wouldnt have it any other way .

I hate when I see posts like "all 90s kids are having babies and getting married but I'm trying to actually enjoy my life" 😑 like really? I'm 23 and I feel like I had plenty of time to drink and party and do my own thing. Being a mother is the most exciting thing that has ever happened to me and I've never been happier.

ive never been much into drinking and shit so really im not missing out on anything ! @emkasting people just dont know when enough is enough .

I was never the kind of person that wanted to date around or go home with some random guy from a bar to sleep with him..that just isn't me! Some people call that "living" but to me living is meeting your soul mate and being happy together. I'm glad I get to spend every moment with the man I love and now that we got pregnant and brought a baby into the world everything just seems like it's fallen into place for me! Gosh I could not agree with this post more!

the woman who commented on it is just BITTTTEEERRR . i hate how everyone thinks that because THEY do something , or THEY view something a certain way , thats just how it has to be @emkasting .

I agree. People will just drink themselves into oblivion! I like having a drink every now and then but I don't miss drinking so much that I feel like shit the next day. That was never fun for me! It sucks cause a lot of my "friends" completely dropped off the map when I got pregnant since I'm not "fun" anymore. Makes me feel really hurt but you really do find out who your real friends are when you have kids. Just because I don't wanna go out and drink every night or do drugs like some of my old friends doesn't necessarily mean I'm not good enough to hang out with anymore

i hang out with one person since i got pregnant . one . @emkasting and weve been friends since 5th grade . my friend of 14 years stopped talking to me because i dont smoke anymore @emkasting .