Honestly I don't understand how people can say "Don't stress so much! Stop trying and it will happen! Quit worrying let nature take its course!". I have tried to have that mindset and quit trying and stop worrying but I can't get it out of my head that "Oh I need to lay flat for 15 minutes after to sex so the sperm has time to swim!" or "I can't be on top because then gravity will take effect and I won't get pregnant.". How do you get this mindset?!! It's seems impossible!! What do you think about instead?? I see babies literally everywhere and all I can think is "Oh that could be me if I do all these things." Or I see baby themed stuff (baby shower stuff, mom and baby matching outfits, etc.) and I can't get my mind off of it for more than a day. Any advice would be greatly appreciated at this point I am sick and tired of negative after negative test and I know I'm not the only one.
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It's just sooooo hard with all these baby pictures and everything all over Pinterest (which I'm addicted to) to forget and take my mind off of it. I just wanted to know if anyone had anything they used to get it off their mind.
I guess I'm just crazy I believe in those old wives tells even though they've been proven wrong my grandma instilled it into me that they're true and to follow them😂 I'm gonna try and forget and let it happen but it's hard to keep my mind off of it!
you can be on top and still get pregnant! and you dont have to lay flat on ur back for 15 minutes after sex. I cant tell you how many times people have told me that after my miscarriage. or the craziest one yet, put a towel on your vajajay right after so the sperm doesnt slide out. Whatttt! lol its definitely not easy. i commented on one of your previous posts telling you not to stress, and obviously youre going to stress. its hard after a miscarriage no doubt. but if you try and have fun with it, it helps alot! when youre doing the deed, try not to think "ok hurry up and get me pregnant". instead just have some fun sex! itll be in the back of your head for sure but try to think about the person youre having sex with, how beautiful the child will be. be patient. im sure youll get your bundle of joy soon enough
@b3autymarkk23, what was he taking? Was it a workout supplement?