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Night while at the in laws, my daughter announces she wants a baby brother. Everyone thought it was cute... While my…

Night while at the in laws, my daughter announces she wants a baby brother. Everyone thought it was cute... While my sister in law asked if we were thinking about having an other one and before I or my husband could answer my mother in law yelled "Hell No!"

We were going to tell them no because we want it to be a surprise, but that hurt my feeling so mush I have done nothing but cry. We have been trying for 6 months to have another baby.

Why am I so emotional?

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jpatt4

Josten

Мама дочки (2 года)

The worst part is, my husband doesn't understand why I am so upset. He doesn't even get it...

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My sister in law right after I was married out of the blue said, "I love you guys, but don't have kids for a while. You're just not ready." We announced that we were pregnant 2 weeks later. lol she was so mad.

celinahendzel

Celina Hendzel

That's horrible! so sorry

jpatt4

Josten

Мама дочки (2 года)

It's like my husband doesn't get it, or he is hiding it... Either way j can't! 😢😭

jpatt4

Josten

Мама дочки (2 года)

Still so upset!!! 😢😭

nova887

Kelly

wow super rude.

beansmommy2014

Taelor Naugle

Мама дочки (1 год)

my mother in law is the same. I'm afraid of what she might say/ do when I get pregnant

jpatt4

Josten

Мама дочки (2 года)

It's not that she know we are trying. We have keep it a secret. I think it's because we are not the favorite kids. We do everything for ourselves and don't ask for help unless we really need it. ( I mean really really need it. But I am sitting her and I just wan to cry. Why does this effect me so much?

breebunny

Breann

Мама дочки-младенца

That's really rude! Why would she say that? I could understand if she was joking but that's messed up

mrsfreckles85

Sara Frantz

Aww I'm sorry. Sometimes people can be really insensitive

Any suggestions on announcing pregnancy to unhappy in laws? We are pregnant with our fourth baby, but we have never…

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Does anyone like their in laws?

Does anyone like their in laws? With all the posts about terrible in laws I was just wondering if anyone actually likes their in laws?!?! I love me in laws. I'm blessed to have such a wonderful immediate and extended family. My mil loves spending time with my boys. She comes over at least once a week and will sleep over. She gets up with the boys in the morning and let's my husband and I sleep in. My fil is a great man also. He's always coming over to visit and do some odd jobs around the house (my husband is not handy at all lol). So anyone else have great in laws?? I figured I'd ask so we can talk positively about our in laws!!!