SO dad called this morning complaining of chest pain again. Everything he is going throw with his…

SO dad called this morning complaining of chest pain again. Everything he is going throw with his health is self inflicted by his heavy drinking, smoking and bad eating habits. He expects my SO to drop everything and come running. The moment he asks "do you need me to come get you" his father becomes a total dick to him and says nvm and hangs up. My SO has no problem taking him to the ER but don't expect him to read your mind. Man up and say "hey son I need you to take me to the ER". My guess is he got into it with his gf again last night and she left so he started drinking and now he's dealing with chest pain once again. It's painful to watch his father treat him like shit but still expect so much from him. I wish he understood being an ass won't get you what you want any faster. Sorry rant over....