so since ive been on this app i see alot of posts about ppl wanting to self induce before there 40 weeks is up . well shit that just makes me feel even worse because I CANT EVER CARRY TO FULL TERM OR CARRY TO EVEN 30 WEEKS ILL BE LUCKY IF I CAN MAKE IT TO 26 WEEKS BUT MY DR SAID IM MOST LIKELY TO DELIVER AT 24 WEEKS THATS JUST RIGHT WHEN MY CHILD WILL BE DEVELOPING HIS OR HER LUNGS . SO BE GREATFUL MOST OF YOU WOMEN CAN EVEN CARRY TILL 30 TO 40 WEEKS .
CAUSE I KNOW DAMN WELL IT KILLS ME KNOWING MY CHILD WILL BE PREMATURE . SO JUST LEAVE IT BE IF THERE BEYOND 30 WEEKS ITS FUCKING FINE ITS NOT LIKE THERE TRYING TO STOP IT AT 20 WEEKS OR SO . SO STOP FUCKING JUDGING EVERYONE .
thank you guys it really means alot to me @lilanne1927 @mamayoung @babyj0916
I know mama. I sincerely hope everything turns out great at the end. 🌺
@lilanne1927, same here thats exactly why i dont understand why ppl are so quick to judge others :( &thank; you @xoamanduh & thank you dear its truly devastating
Oh my. I couldn't even imagine what's that's like. I hope everything turns out well for you both.
@vb95, i have a bicornuate uterus so my baby only has so much room to grow and as soon as he or she cant grow anymore baby will be born and i will always have to have a c-section do to it . it breaks my heart knowing i have it im expectimg my rainbow baby now because i lost my son last year at 13 weeks and 6 days . @addisonsmommy2016 yes ppl need to learn how to worry about them selfs a baby is perfectly healthy after 30 some weeks so idk why ppl are bitching about other ppls choices maybe they have a reason to want to have there baby early idk but its none of anyones part to complain or to get mad about it
@kelseylynn504, I couldn't agree with you more mama. I am almost 35 weeks and my Dr told me if she comes before 37 he isn't going to stop it due to all my complications . every situation is different like you said time to sit back and chill. worry about your own health and your baby :)

My stomach is sooo heavy at this point I’m ready for these 4 weeks to fly by !! Idk why my stomach be so huge for my kids to come weighing 5/6 pounds at 39 weeks they be so tiny compared to most the babies in the nursery !!! Maybe I carry a lot of water idk but it makes no sense and I guarantee when I go for my sono next week when I turn 36 weeks they gone say she’s only 4 pounds right now !!!

30 weeks and 1 day today! Im so excited! Would love to see other Mama's belly at 30 weeks! ☺️ People can be so mean when your pregnant everyone tells me im to small for 30 weeks and my baby is going to be born to small it really hurts my feelings and makes me worry even though my doctor said my baby is just fine and he weighs 3 pounds. People really don't understand telling a woman her belly is to small is just as bad as telling a woman she is to big. Wish my belly was bigger but every woman carr...
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.


Before u become pregnant think of this
Do I want to be uncomfortable as hell for 40-42 weeks?
Do I want to be in horrible pain for up to 14-16 hours even longer
Can I handle pushing a big ass head through my vagina
Can I handle this with no pain meds(sometimes u can't make it in time)
Do I want to go to the hospital 10x before I'm actually in labor.
Because inducing your labor at 32-37 weeks for your own selfish needs or getting a csection to do it the "easy" way is just plain selfish and FYI a...
My heart is so heavy writing this..Today at my 20 week appointment the doctor said her heart stopped beating.I made it so far and we wanted her so bad..Im just lost😢😢😭😭.Now Im being induced to deliver my sleeping angel.
sending prayers 🙏❤