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has anyone else's ob suggested not getting their tubes tied after having a baby and to do an iud instead? I had an iud…

has anyone else's ob suggested not getting their tubes tied after having a baby and to do an iud instead?

I had an iud and my body rejected it after a month. this will be my second child BUT ive unfortunately had three miscarriages in between my first and this baby... I told my doctor I really wanted my tubes tied because I for sure do not want any more kids especially with how many bad pregnancies ive expirienced. if I wanted another kid I would adopt.

I am 27 years old and I do not feel like its fair I dont have the option for getting mine done

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kambam

kammy

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I would change my ob 😑

missing485user

missing485user

im planning on it! I see how bad he is now. always hours late to see me at appointments and never remembers who I am. hes super old and thinks pretty old school. I loved him at first but after this I need to find someone else who's closer to my town. I drive an hour to be seen twice a week.

boymomplusagirl

boymomplusagirl

I agree with @kambam I am 26 and getting my tubes tied during my csection. In my state the regulations are 26years old or 2 kids before they usually let you tie them. You should be able to do what you want to with your body.

kmunoz

Katelynn Munoz

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I love when guys try to make recommendations like they've been pregnant or something -_-

missing485user

missing485user

my state is the same with the law... 2 kids and over 25 here. this will be my second child to be born. he says when woman get it done at such a young age they feel remorse and regret so he wont do it. he says to wait till im 35 to decide.

I think two kids is more than enough for me. between these two and have miscarriages I know for sure I dont want any more. my body doesnt handle pregnancy well and my daughter was born at 31 weeks. I had a miscarriage at 27 weeks in between my first and this one. two other miscarriages between also but they ended very early. :( if I wanted another child I would adopt one who needed love when I am financially stable for that. kids are expensive!!!

missing485user

missing485user

im terrible at tagging ladies so sorry, I am replying to everyone :)

The other day at my OB appt, my Dr said he needed to have the talk with me about having my tubes tied. I had ultimately…

The other day at my OB appt, my Dr said he needed to have the talk with me about having my tubes tied. I had ultimately decided against it due to how my periods were prior to getting pregnant every time, so I decided i wanted to get an IUD and he said he can do it the day of my section. I'll be having my 4th C-section next week and he said although an IUD is 99% effective, he recommends me getting my tubes tied bc it's be dangerous for me to get pregnant again and have another csection. I know I'm done having kids after this baby, but having my tubes tied feels too permanent, ya know? He said he could tie my tubes and still implant the IUD to help with my periods, but i feel like I still just want the IUD. What are the chances of having an IUD fail?