missing485user
missing485user
missing485user

has anyone else's ob suggested not getting their tubes tied after having a baby and to do an iud instead?

I had an iud and my body rejected it after a month. this will be my second child BUT ive unfortunately had three miscarriages in between my first and this baby... I told my doctor I really wanted my tubes tied because I for sure do not want any more kids especially with how many bad pregnancies ive expirienced. if I wanted another kid I would adopt.

I am 27 years old and I do not feel like its fair I dont have the option for getting mine done

15.06.2016

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missing485user

im terrible at tagging ladies so sorry, I am replying to everyone :)

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missing485user

my state is the same with the law... 2 kids and over 25 here. this will be my second child to be born. he says when woman get it done at such a young age they feel remorse and regret so he wont do it. he says to wait till im 35 to decide.

I think two kids is more than enough for me. between these two and have miscarriages I know for sure I dont want any more. my body doesnt handle pregnancy well and my daughter was born at 31 weeks. I had a miscarriage at 27 weeks in between my first and this one. two other miscarriages between also but they ended very early. :( if I wanted another child I would adopt one who needed love when I am financially stable for that. kids are expensive!!!

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kmunoz
Katelynn Munoz·Мама двоих (9 лет, 10 лет)

I love when guys try to make recommendations like they've been pregnant or something -_-

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boymomplusagirl

I agree with @kambam I am 26 and getting my tubes tied during my csection. In my state the regulations are 26years old or 2 kids before they usually let you tie them. You should be able to do what you want to with your body.

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missing485user

im planning on it! I see how bad he is now. always hours late to see me at appointments and never remembers who I am. hes super old and thinks pretty old school. I loved him at first but after this I need to find someone else who's closer to my town. I drive an hour to be seen twice a week.

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kambam
kammy·Мама сына (9 лет)

I would change my ob 😑

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