Seriously about to slap the next person who makes a comment or snide remark towards me. I look younger than I am, I'm tiny and carry all out in front of me. So it's obvious I'm pregnant. I don't wear my rings because my knuckles swell up randomly and they get stuck. Multiple times today I have caught people staring at me, laughing and pointing at me and even had a couple guys follow my car around town so they could pull up beside and laugh. (I eventually took off from a light and lost them in traffic and a couple turns) I'm already struggling mentally to handle the stress at home as well as waiting.
a couple at my appointment today made a comment at how its wrong for me to be pregnant at 16. I turned around with the quickness and said excuse me but I am 27 and certainly not too young for a child even if I was 16 neither of you have any right to assume such a thing. the lady apologized and said you just look so young...
at that point I had enough and walked away. rude ass people.
Im going through the same thing! It pisses me off. I haven't worn my engagement ring because my hands are swollen too. I've had multiple people point directly at me and make a rude comment. and people laugh at me. I've overheard people saying wow look at her, 15 and pregnant already. I'm 22 years old. And even if I was 15 have some damn respect. wtf. People suck. They need to mind their own business.
I know what you are going through. I have bipolar and have been ask " so if you are pregnant, think you can handle it?." we have been planning this for awhile, and so I talked to my phyc about it and she has me on a C? class med. ppl we are stronger than you think.. hugs hang in there.