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Tricey
Tricey
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (32 нед.)

Ladies tell me if you guys deal with this like I do!

Ladies tell me if you guys deal with this like I do!

I've been in the same relationship for 7 years ...we have a 3 going on 4 year old daughter and we're expecting a baby boy in 50 days ...(countdown has began lol)

Now when I tell ppl I'm pregnant they always say oh congrats !!! Then they hit me with ohhh is it the same dad ?? If I wasn't pregnant I would probably want to fight for that stupid remark . That ish realllllyyyyy pisses me off ...like what the hell I look like having different baby daddies & my first child is 3!!?!??

I'm not knocking the women who do but me personally that's not an option for me

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tinannas

Tiana

Мама двоих (младенец)

I felt the same way when I was pregnant. It's really annoying af. No one asks since I've had my son but maybe cause my BD is always with me I'm sure when he's not it'll start up again 🙄

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leatricescherri

Tricey

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (32 нед.)

Girl it's beyond annoying lol.... Luckily it stopped for you and hopefully it doesn't start back up ...I've had someone ask me in front of my bd and we just shook our heads

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leatricescherri

Tricey

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (32 нед.)

@nyandzysmommy,

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tinannas

Tiana

Мама двоих (младенец)

That is crazy, people are bold. Hopefully they stop asking you dumb ass questions sooner than later.

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lilbit123

sarah

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

dam I feel ya my three oldest are by my ex husband an this baby is by my current hubby no baby daddies for me an I get that question alot

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leatricescherri

Tricey

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (32 нед.)

@nyandzysmommy, I hope so too ...I guess it's the new norm to have 2 plus kids with 2 plus different dads ...I don't want to follow that trend

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leatricescherri

Tricey

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (32 нед.)

@lilbit123, ppl should just say congrats and leave it at that

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lilbit123

sarah

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

definitely it's none of there business

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ftmommieoftwiinz

Kae

Мама двоих (младенец)

wth..that's disrespectful that someone would even ask you that..smh ppl I swear

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babygirl71716

Celena

Мама двоих (12 лет, 15 лет), ждёт третьего

@leatricescherri, I'm actually one of the many that have different baby daddy lol. Not by choice I was 18 when I had my first and things just didn't work out , now with my last 2 they share the same father. I mean to each is own, I feel like it's no one's business. But for people to cross the line and assume you've got multiple father's is plain wrong, ignorant and disrespectful . Yes I've got 2 baby daddy but my hubby now has been taking care of baby girl since she was 2. She's now going to be 16 and her biological dad hasn't looked for her ever. So I'm my situation it kinda worked out

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leatricescherri

Tricey

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (32 нед.)

@ftmommieoftwiinz, that's what I'm saying ....I take it as super disrespect...but since I'm pregnant I turn the other cheek

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amaresmama

Ashley

well that's stupid of them to ask

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lezlie527

Leslie. C

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I would be pissed and I know your pregnant. but I would of said something, put them in their place, so they know they crossed the line. and to not do it again, of course you can't fight or anything like that..but don't turn the other cheek either, or they'll feel way to comfortable thinking it's okay to ask stupid ass questions!! say what you gotta say and walk away.. @leatricescherri lea

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leatricescherri

Tricey

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (32 нед.)

@lezlie527, I'm not the one to do much talking when I'm upset so the best thing for me to do is walk away before I have no choice but to go there .... Ppl tend to disrespect you when they know you're in a position to not do much

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leatricescherri

Tricey

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (32 нед.)

@amaresmama, very stupid girl smh

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lezlie527

Leslie. C

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@leatricescherri, I agree with you on people thinking they can say what they want knowing you can't do much. It sucks, and I do hope those people start being respectful if that's even in their being to be. if you feel you shouldn't say anything then don't..walk away like you said and done even speak to them. your only concern is your beautiful baby who's soon to arrive by the same dad for their damn information! if anything do what my bf does, he hates being asked stupid questions...so he gets ask stupid questions.. he gives a stupid answer. then they'll be like wait what?? he says don't ask stupid questions and you won't get stupid answers..and just walks away!! lol you'll be okay LOVE. Let idiots be idiots

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leatricescherri

Tricey

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (32 нед.)

@lezlie527, lmfao my bf does the exact same thing when ppl ask stupid questions...the response on the other person is always priceless...

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lezlie527

Leslie. C

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@leatricescherri, it sure is priceless, maybe something you can pick up for the stupid people asking you stupid questions or saying stupid stuff. gets the point across real quick!!!

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