Soooo....my SO lost his job June 7th AND has yet to tell me!!! I pop up at his job with breakfast, just to find out he no longer works there!! 1st of all, why is he lying, 2nd of all if he isnt waking up.going to work where is he going, and 3rd of all....WE are pregnant...wtf???
I understand that I have 3.5 yr old and a 2.5 yr old that I tried to Co parent with for 2 years and then their dad just dropped off the earth never to be heard from again 8 months ago
I'm sorry you're going through that, but I'm sure you're better off without someone like that. I think it's better to know you can't rely on someone while you're pregnant than it is to have that person leave/bail and leave you with the kids on your own. You're a strong woman and a great mother.
I agree @mybabyloves just sucks trying to co-parent an almost 3yr old on top of being pregnant.
Good bye loser. You don't need that, he would have lied till the very end. I am glad you found out when you did.
@sparklymama, he said he was looking for work & going on interviews. However, I went through his phone & he had been entertaining another woman.
so did you ever get confirmed what he was doing or where he was? @gorgeoushar
@kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom, @mybabyloves @rachel8792 @sarahb518 @sparklymama @vella89
I confronted him & then broke up with him...he lied the WHOLE time. I let 3 weeks go by & he said nothing!!!
i would have waited followed his ass the next day to see where he spends his time and what he does all day then confronted his ass lol but thats just me! Goodluck!
I have NO idea...he gets home at 5pm...I confronted him ladies and as expected he lied!!
oh my gosh!!!! I have no clue what I would do. Where is he going everyday!!!!!! What time is he suppose to be home from "work"
I would have busted him on the phone, and made him tell me where he is, but now you can have the better upperhand. When he gets home, be ready for him. I would be like so u were at work huh ? and then tell him what you did, he will be so caught that he wont have a chance to lie. You need to find out where this guy has been all day... at some point what did he think he was going to do if he needs to bring home a paycheck.. men.. i tell you
I wouldn't wait at all. I would call him out on it. That's not ok at all that he has been lying to you. You need to confront him about it now
@rachel8792, he said he is at work...I didnt tell him I showed up with breakfast...how long should I wait before saying anything to him??
Thank you ladies @kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom @mybabyloves I will be ok...God has a plan