RANT ALERT okay so my mil is crazy! And I mean crazy! I'm about to give her her first grandchild and…

RANT ALERT

okay so my mil is crazy! And I mean crazy! I'm about to give her her first grandchild and she legit thinks it's her daughter and she's planning to try bring my daughter up the way she brought up her kids and I do not agree with any parts of her parenting at all, she never listens to me when I tell her stuff like not to buy us any more stuff for her and she has an opinion on everything! Even to the extent where she has openly expressed how she doesn't want us to get her christened and it's something I feel so strongly about, to what way we should do the nursery and as she lives in Scotland and currently I'm still in Northern Ireland she's complaining at the fact that she'll only get to see her 3 times a year, iv already had to tell my oh that I personally will never ever be going over there again and if he must he can take the child to hers twice a year and she's still not happy about it, every time I go to her house I get really sick with my asthma once even having to go to hospital and it just doesn't click with him that it's her house that's making me ill!!

On another rant I really don't no if I'm angry or upset, my oh is in the army and the day we found out we were pregnant was the same day he had just left to go back to Cyprus for the second half of a 6 month tour, due to stress I had to have an early scan so he missed that then also he missed the booking appointment and scan at 10 weeks, he then also missed the first midwife appointment because they refused to give him the morning off work or even rearrange his shift and now he's going away for 2 days next week when we have to move into our new house so I have to do all that on my own then in July he's away my whole birthday week which is also the same week as the next midwife appointment and my whooping cough injection, I feel like I'm doing this all on my own and we just got married last week and all his family was over including his mum then they left on Friday there and he decided to work the whole weekend