Trigger. Lost baby

Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?

I'm finally here at my appointment about to get my IUD. I had to reschedule last time but I'm a nervous wreck. Ladies who have it did it hurt while getting it done?

Is IUD an option?

After this baby I want something secure that would prevent me from getting pregnant. Any of you ladies had an experience with copper IUD ?

I'm looking for some FEEDBACK on birthcontrol. I just had a baby 3 weeks ago and my midwife suggested the IUD. I've heard mixed reviews. I'm thinking maybe the NuvaRing, IUD, or Implanon. What are you on? Looking for experiences and side effects that you dealt with from B.C.?

Birth Plan Rant

I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?