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Brittany
Brittany
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (27 нед.)

I hate that I get judged for CIRCUMCISING my son.. I get told "you tortured him" "you don't love him" etc all because I…

I hate that I get judged for CIRCUMCISING my son.. I get told "you tortured him" "you don't love him" etc all because I did that simple thing! I even got called irrelevant for doing it.. Like really? No matter what, my son is PERFECT whether I got him cut or not. Yes he is cut, and he's perfectly FINE! No infections down there, nothing. Too many mothers are so quick to judge you for this topic and it's fucking ridiculous.. Just because I got my child circumcised does not mean I don't love him! 😠😠

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missing413user

missing413user

That's nobody's business!!! Plus you can flip that argument around and say it's torture to NOT circumcise 😂

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thebaileys

Brittany

Мама сына-младенца, беременна (27 нед.)

@rainbow0601, there's so many moms who are so quick to judge you when they ask if you got your child circumcised.. it's crazy!!

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missing413user

missing413user

LOL and I will absolutely do the same and gladly.

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crazytoast

Paige

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It's really a no win situation if someone asks, they always have an opinion no matter what you decided to do 😕 I'd just say my child's private areas are just that, what was or wasn't done to him is not up to anyone but his parents.

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taylay

Taylor

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My thing is... I want someone to find me ONE man in this world that remembers his circumcision... Babies don't have enough brain development as newborns to retain the memory of it, so the fact people call it "torture" is ignorant lol

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thebaileys

Brittany

Мама сына-младенца, беременна (27 нед.)

@taylay, EXACTLY! My brother who's 15 just found out last year that he was circumcised and he was like "why didn't you ask me" "I don't remember that" and he got freaked out because he thought something was wrong with him but he's fine.. and mainly every man in this world will recommend circumcision!

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taylay

Taylor

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It hurts while it's happening, and then it's sore while it's healing .. Just like any other thing that will happen to them in their lives lol @thebaileys I know someone who isn't circumcised and he says it's caused him to go through more in his life, like embarrassment and extra cleaning and all sort of things.

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sydneyh

Syd

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My stepson is and my son will be as well and if someone has a problem with it then they can shove it where the sun don't shine because it's my son and my decision.

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mommyofdoubletrouble

Xianna

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (29 нед.)

my son is and hes just as perfect as can be idgaf what anyone says.

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@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.

alright I can not stand when people decide they can tell me how to parent MY son and what I decided to do with him isn't…

alright I can not stand when people decide they can tell me how to parent MY son and what I decided to do with him isn't good because they don't approve or they don't like it. I will circumcise MY son I don't give a fuck what you have to say, you don't like it don't get your son circumcised simple don't tell me what I can and can not do with MY child. in all kindness and out of respect, just fuck off ✋

What is the healing process like after circumcision?

QUESTION if you had a son and got him circumcised what was the healing process like for you ???? Like how did you care for it ? What were your feelings ? Would you have rather not got him circumcised???? I'm having a boy and bf wants him circumcised and I'm a little scared about it