OK I need some advice ladies. My two oldest children are to the same guy, which I didn't have a baby shower with either…
OK I need some advice ladies. My two oldest children are to the same guy, which I didn't have a baby shower with either of them when I was pregnant. Now I'm pregnant again and this unborn baby daddy's wants to throw me a baby shower. In my eyes I don't want too have one, cause I don't want my two kids asking "hey mommy why did you have a baby shower with this baby, but not with us".
so what's your input?
deleted-user·
I can see your point on that.
Is there someway you could include your two older children into this celebration? Maybe not consider it just a baby shower but a family "shower"? or some other catchy title. Then maybe when your children are older, they'll appreciate it that you included them into this one.
KiLEYBOO·
Мама двоих (2 года, 8 лет)
that's what I was thinking, which they would definitely be included. I'm trying to see should I keep it the same and not have one because of the other two, or have it cause I mean baby showers you get really awesome baby gifts (:
bria·
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I think you should have one... And definitely include your other two which I'm sure you would anyways.. Maybe do something special the following weekend with your older kids (before baby gets here) and have a day where you celebrate them being your oldest babies!
KiLEYBOO·
Мама двоих (2 года, 8 лет)
@bria, thank you girl I like the sound of that.