OK I need some advice ladies. My two oldest children are to the same guy, which I didn't have a baby shower with either of them when I was pregnant. Now I'm pregnant again and this unborn baby daddy's wants to throw me a baby shower. In my eyes I don't want too have one, cause I don't want my two kids asking "hey mommy why did you have a baby shower with this baby, but not with us".
so what's your input?
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I think you should have one... And definitely include your other two which I'm sure you would anyways.. Maybe do something special the following weekend with your older kids (before baby gets here) and have a day where you celebrate them being your oldest babies!
that's what I was thinking, which they would definitely be included. I'm trying to see should I keep it the same and not have one because of the other two, or have it cause I mean baby showers you get really awesome baby gifts (:
I can see your point on that.
Is there someway you could include your two older children into this celebration? Maybe not consider it just a baby shower but a family "shower"? or some other catchy title. Then maybe when your children are older, they'll appreciate it that you included them into this one.
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that
Baby Shower Dress?! Shopping has been difficult and I can't decide which dress for my shower? Keeping gender a surprise!
I want a baby shower but I don't have no friends!! :((
If I lift this and sweep today, will it hurt my baby? I'm pregnant and really don't want to hurt the baby.
@bria, thank you girl I like the sound of that.