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I'm beginning to feel so alone in these last couple of weeks. My BD is still drinking even though he was told he needed to stop drinking after 2 really bad drunken incidents back in December. She is literally due in 2 weeks I no longer to keep wearing the engagement ring he gave me if he doesn't care about how his actions affect me and our daughter. He's said so many times he was going to stop since I've been pregnant and I can see now he is going to continue well after she gets here. I'm getting scared because she is breech and is not flipping no matter how often I do the exercises. I don't want to have a c-section uness it's the last resort. I have no one to talk to who can seriously relate to how I'm feeling.
13.06.2016
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brebre106
brebre106
Well the only time he goes to drinking is when he is stressed or depressed but that usually happens when we are fighting a lot. He has family issues for sure that I think are connected to why he chooses not to stop. But I'm giving him one last chance to prove he won't drink anymore and the baby is due in 2 weeks so he knows there is a zero tolerance once she is here.
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kimberly_preemie-mom
kimberly_preemie-mom
Do you know why he drinks? Did he go through a family loss? An accident? Any trauma? I'm trying to figure out why he would continue the habit. Don you think of you two were to break up he would see his mistakes? Or get worse?? Ultimately YOU need to be happy. Your baby deserves a happy momma.
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brebre106
brebre106
@kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom, I've been trying to figure that out for awhile now and he hasn't had any bad nights like he did in December but it's the fact I can't trust him when is drinking because he doesn't have a limit and turns into an ass but only when he has been drinking that's it.
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kimberly_preemie-mom
kimberly_preemie-mom
I'm sorry you're going through all that. Maybe it's time to reconsider your options and reevaluate your relationship. No matter what your little one should be your main focus. Think about this:: are you better with him? Or without him? You don't have to answer that to me, but answer it honestly to your self and decide what's best for you and your baby.
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