my mom lives in SC and I live in NY. we dont really get along and she wanted to come up for the birth but that is the only week my husband will have off so we told her it would be more helpful to come after he goes back to work. she responded by saying she won't come up at all until we have a "serious talk" about our difficulties. I told her I have too much going on to do that( it never fixes anything) and she just won't let it go. this is so frustrating. I have no idea what to do