so idk if i'm in the wrong or not but my baby shower was yesterday and i got lots of stuff. i'm so thankful. however, my mother in law that has caused me so many problems put on all the cards that she gave "to: zade, from: mama and paw paw" paw paw being her husband and my child's grandfather. idk what her fucking game is but it's gonna be a cold day in hell before my child addresses anyone but me as mama. she already talked to me about what she wanted to be called by the baby and she told me the name lubby. bitch those are two different things. idk if im just acting crazy or what but she literally has acted like my baby is going to be staying at her house overnight a couple times a week every week in the past and i had to correct her on that. now she wants my baby to call her mama since she can't have my baby all the time
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Absolutely not. I actually do not get why some people let their children call their grandmothers "mama" Mines wrote the same thing for my daughter's Christmas gift, I told my husband, This is not happening I'm the only MAMA for her. Since we're hispanics "Wela" it's an easy way and she can call her that just like I call my grandmother that too. Or something else but definitely not mama. Mama it's kind of the first word they call their mommies, It wouldn't be special in my opinion the grandmother getting called mama.
If she's concerned about the baby not being able to pronounce grands, there are other options. My stepmom is Mimi. My sisters inlaw is Gigi
@mlindzey, @phinnybinz thank you. i was starting to second guess myself
@arivera64, maybe that's it and i want to give her the benefit of the doubt but she's just causing problems at this point. she literally told my husband i was cheating on him because she saw me in the store with my brother, who i just randomly ran into to and spoke to for two minutes. she hyped my husband up with so many lies that he was ready to leave me without ever talking to me. she told him that he would be a good single father, to get full custody of my child, and that she would help him raise my son.
You're in the right. This is your baby and she is over stepping her role and Grandma.
totally understand you. My MIL always says how are my babies it bothers me like those are my babies your grandchildren, we also just moved and she said 'you didn't even think about me I'm never gonna get to see my babies. Were literally like 20 mins away. my daughter doesn't even really like her use to scream when she went to her and even now at a year in a half when MIL calls her over Keira stays with me and wont happily walk to her like she does with my Mom. some MILs are overbearing sorry your dealing with this.
Nope! Wouldn't be happening. Put her in her place now before it gets worse.
Your kid, your rules. I'm dealing with an overstepping mother in law right now too. It may be her grandchild, but it's YOUR child. That's my stance.. They've been here for 10 days and are finally leaving today... So I'm frustrated enough to agree w you ENTIRELY.
I'm having a similar issue with my mil. My sons been staying there for a little over a month because we had a house fire and he's still in school so since we were bouncing from hotels to temporary houses I let him stay there to go to school. School lets out for summer on Friday and I told him he's staying with us in our rental till we move back in our house next month. My son wants to argue that he's staying with my mil and to top that off she keeps arguing why can't he stay? I told them both that the situation was temporary and only for his schooling, he's our son and belongs with us. He's developed an attitude since staying there my mom seems to think she's brainwashing him because she doesn't wanna live alone. I told my husband come hell or high water he's coming home with us and if she doesn't back it then he's not gonna be visiting with her for a while. No other woman should try to replace you as your child's mother...period!