I hate when he works late as it is then decides to go have a beer with a female coworker it's not…

omg. I don't understand how you have the patience. I think a man should go home to his woman after work. that's what mine always done in 4 years together. if we go out to drink we go out together.

I'm losing the patience he invited her to my baby shower today I'm getting frustrated @momtobeagain

nooo hunny it's your special day. just take it easy and when you get a chance sit down and have a serious conversation with him.

if the baby shower hasn't started I would call her myself and tell her she is not welcome, that you are only inviting closed friends

I just don't have the guts to tell her no at this point I'm afraid of conflict just because I don't like it I might just deal she's only gonna be there for an hour so I'll just ignore her

I understand. but you guys definitely need to have a talk cause you are his woman and your feelings should be his priority. you are very valuable and you deserve the best.

and its not about you not being jealous, its about him giving you the respect that you deserve as his woman and mother of his kid.

agreed! @momtobeagain

I couldn't imagine joseph going out with a girl from work instead if coming home to me or coming to get me first. he doesn't even go out with guys without me if I'm off work. don't put up with that.. tell him how you feel.

@kaidens_mommy, that's how my husband is too. he puts me and our marriage first.

the funny thing is that men do it and its normal but if we did it God forbid. @kaidens_mommy @timeforbaby2

right? ESPECIALLY the men that do it. it's always wrong if it's the other way around. @momtobeagain

exactly. smh . @kaidens_mommy

I talked with him he apologized and he hasn't even brought her up since he's great at that I just have a hard time talking I guess it's from my ex he used to be very rude I just have to remember they aren't the same guy