this is going to be a confusing/funky question so dont judge me but here goes.

what do women do how is a women supposed to act and how does a girlfriend act?

i dont know any of these things at all, it sounds crazy but i wasnt raised at all to know these things hell i wasn't raised at all and if i went into my child hood id be here all day.

anyway im having issues with my SO and have been for awhile and its bc i keep making childish mistakes that i dont think a woman would make. i just want to be able to take charge and not mess up and think like an adult. it be nice if i had a mom or other women in my life who taught me how a women should act or someone who i could have learned healthy relationship behavior from but i didn't so id like to know a few tips or some advice on how you adult like a women or how a woman acts and thinks especially in a relationship.