I haven't heard from him since Monday... I know he's gonna play the "I've been busy" card which he might have been but... Hasn't even asked about her. Feeling emotional about this whole situation. He wanted pictures when she was born and I've been sending pictures since but he doesn't deserve them or my updates. Or my trying to have them meet. I'm trying for her but maybe I shouldn't anymore. 😔
Yeah forget him. He knows he has a child that deserves both parents involvement in her life. Oh well his loss enjoy your baby girl, no need to stress when you are blessed with a bundle of joy. When he does try to see her I would tell him I need to check our schedule. Let him know ain't nobody sitting around waiting on him to show his face. Hell y'all good been good and gonna be good.
@sweetpea_nut, yeah I wouldn't try to let someone that's gonna be a part time parent have the time of day. Me and my fiancé went through all of it when I got pregnant cuz of his friends saying our son wasn't his and then his mom said he didn't need to help me stock pile diapers and wipes and stuff for him when I started buying stuff. So he was listening to other people instead of actually thinking about the future.
@lindybee13, yeah I'm throwing in the towel. If I keep on it'll only make me feel worse. Save us the heartbreak.
Girl I wouldn't continue to try if he wasn't goin to put in any effort. Me and my fiancé had a go around about me being up all the time with our little one and he has just now started helping and changes his diapers and helps with him at night.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?

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the amount of women who are clueless about their own anatomy is so sad and shocking. a lot of the women are older than me and have more children then I do 😳
now I understand that everyone has their own opinion on the topic and grown adults can do whatever they want with their bodies but to deny facts and make up false statements about your own anatomy when it comes to your unborn child is just so disappointing.
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@lindybee13, @nova887 thank you girls. I never thought I'd feel this way about it or that it would be hard. But I can keep going. She's my world and he doesn't exist in it.