I haven't heard from him since Monday... I know he's gonna play the "I've been busy" card which he might have been but... Hasn't even asked about her. Feeling emotional about this whole situation. He wanted pictures when she was born and I've been sending pictures since but he doesn't deserve them or my updates. Or my trying to have them meet. I'm trying for her but maybe I shouldn't anymore. 😔
Yeah forget him. He knows he has a child that deserves both parents involvement in her life. Oh well his loss enjoy your baby girl, no need to stress when you are blessed with a bundle of joy. When he does try to see her I would tell him I need to check our schedule. Let him know ain't nobody sitting around waiting on him to show his face. Hell y'all good been good and gonna be good.
@sweetpea_nut, yeah I wouldn't try to let someone that's gonna be a part time parent have the time of day. Me and my fiancé went through all of it when I got pregnant cuz of his friends saying our son wasn't his and then his mom said he didn't need to help me stock pile diapers and wipes and stuff for him when I started buying stuff. So he was listening to other people instead of actually thinking about the future.
@lindybee13, yeah I'm throwing in the towel. If I keep on it'll only make me feel worse. Save us the heartbreak.
@lindybee13, @nova887 thank you girls. I never thought I'd feel this way about it or that it would be hard. But I can keep going. She's my world and he doesn't exist in it.