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I really don't want to be judged for this post but I just need to know other peoples thoughts. The topic - gender…

I really don't want to be judged for this post but I just need to know other peoples thoughts. The topic - gender disappointment.

I am 15 weeks today and I am having my gender scan next Saturday. Since I was little I have always been having a girl. You know when you have an image in your head. When I look at baby clothes I always head to the girls section and I have my girls name picked out.

Has anyone had this but then had the opposite sex?? I have a niece and 2 nephews and love them all the same, it's not that I don't like baby boys I just always thought I would have girls.

I am super grateful to be pregnant so please don't think I am not. I also have bipolar so things play on my mind a lot and change isn't easy to go through.

How are your feelings about this? What helped? How long did it take to get your head round the idea of the opposite sex? And happy Saturday everyone!! Xx

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staceyymzack

Stacey Marie

I convinced myself I was having a girl. I thought if I went for my scan and it was a boy I would be disappointed but went for my scan and got told I was having a boy and I cried with joy. Honestly as soon as they tell you regardless of the gender, knowing your baby is healthy takes over. Now I just can't wait to meet my little man! I'm so excited xx

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pandapooooo

Terri

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Awww congratulations <3 my best friend has a 14 week old baby boy and he is just the cutest!! X

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lexifindlay

Lexi Findlay

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I convinced myself I was having a boy because on the wife's tales and stuff, I was so worried that my son would turn out like my oh's son from a different relationship, who is a complete nightmare.. But luckily I'm having a girl😂🎀xx

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josiewatson

Josie Watson

I was so convinced that I was having a boy but I was over the moon that I'm having a girl, nevertheless I would of been happy with a boy as she's a very healthy little miss:)

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charliebrown89

Charlene

i always thought i was having a boy even though i wasn't bothered either way. i convinced myself and even my hubby thought it. i had my scan and got told we were having a girl and i was overjoyed! my oh wasn't so happy but he eventually got used to it and now she is here he loves her to pieces @pandapooooo xx

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leigh-amyxo

Leigh Messenger

Мама сына-младенца

I always thought I was having a girl, found out at 20 week scan that I was having a boy and I cried my eyes out, I was so happy and he's here now and he's my absolute world xxx

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briony1994

Briony Emmy

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I have always wanted a girl and never even thought about having a boy but when I found out I was pregnant I was convinced I was having a boy and fell in love with the idea of having a baby boy then found out I was having a girl, I think either way I would of been just as happy :) I'm sure you will be find Hun, try not to stress about it xx

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homely.mummy.no2

Kerry

Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (31 нед.)

Even if you have your heart set on a girl. As soon as you find out what you are having I'm sure your brain automatically to the idea and once they arrive, the love is overwhelming and I'm sure you will forget about gender diss thoughts. It's early days, plenty of time to her used to the idea of either xxx (I have a boy and another boy on the way) they are so loving and protective. I love boys 😍

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mimibear

Amy

I was so sure that I was having a baby boy and then at the scan was told he was a she lol I always said I never wanted a little girl because I was a nightmare child but now I can't wait to have a little daughter. x

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pandapooooo

Terri

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Thank you everyone ❤️ i feel so guilty for feeling this way so it is so nice to get lots of positive comments xx

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raych

Rachel

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I would love a boy as my husband hasn't got a boy (he has my son but I know what he is saying) I'm having twins and I know they are girls deep down. I will be happy either way, just being blessed with these little monkeys after miscarriages and chemicals is a joy within itself. I don't think you will be disappointed hun, just emotional cos you want girl but you will love your baby whatever gender xxx

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charliefreddiesmumma861

Lauren 🔥

@pandapooooo, I have a boy already, so when I fell pregnant with my second I was convinced I was having a girl, and everyone said I was having a girl I had dinner cravings and generally felt different then when I went for my scan I was told I was having a boy, I had to get used to the idea I was disappointed but now he's here and I got used to it it's fantastic having a little brother for my big man 💙👶🏼👶🏽👨‍👩‍👦‍👦xxx

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deedee1988

kady

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I'm the same hun, convinced I'm having a baby boy and shop for boys stuff, only have a boys name still and have dreams it's a boy. but I know that even if it's a girl I will still love her xx

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kmcf2302

Kayleigh McFadyen

Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (24 нед.)

@pandapooooo, we were convinced we were having another girl, it would have made life so much easier, two girls sharing a room, Could use a lot of my previous pink things I had... When we found out we were having a boy it was a weird feeling. One half of me was like holy shit were having a boy ... What the fuck am i gonna do with a boy? Im so used to girls ... But now I've come round to it I can't wait to meet him & I think be a very fun challenge :P x

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mummyto2boys

Lauren

Yano I was like that, @pandapooooo set on having a little girl, had the girls name picked out, my nan even knitted me a pink and white blanket, I always looked at girl clothes,

But then I found out I was having a boy and tbh I thought I would be upset but when I saw him wriggling on the screen and I knew he was healthy I was over the moon I was so excited to meet him!! Xxxx

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