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Michelle Puppe
Michelle Puppe

so, in my different stages of life I've really learned that talking shit on other people is mean and can be very hurtful…

so, in my different stages of life I've really learned that talking shit on other people is mean and can be very hurtful (even if they don't hear you) it's never okay. I've been hanging out w. this girl that I met since moving to a new area and she talks about every person she sees. I try not to judge ppl for being who they are and obviously ALOT of who this girl is ; is talking meanly about other ppl. but she's so blunt that she has crossed a few lines. she called my bf a piece of shit, has said "fuck him" she's said things about my mom and she calls ppl ugly (she's far from gorgeous herself) and she talks about other women and how they mother their children. it makes me so uncomfortable. I'm not ok w it, but I LOVE her son! i don't even know what to say to this girl, I have like no respect for her as a woman or human being in general just BC of the way she bashes ppl. and she has been out in public and has said things mean to ppl about how they handle their children and I told her to never do that when I'm taking her some where cause that's not the kinda person I am. sorry I needed to vent. I'm to the point I wanna slap this chick! I have to tell her that I can't hang out w her. a friend is some one that doesn't put u down, listens when you talk, and respects you. I'm not gonna be around someone who puts theirself on a pedastol screw that!

Advice please ? Long story... I'm getting married in April we decided no kids other than our own two and my niece And…

Advice please ? Long story... I'm getting married in April we decided no kids other than our own two and my niece And nephew as would end up more kids that adults and it would Cost so much more plus wanted parents to have a day/night to enjoy themselves. Anyway my "maid of honor" ( hasn't done much to help but cause me stress) has 5 kids her youngest will be around 5 months old she's breastfeeding him and keeps telling me she is gonna try and express ect... but I know she has no intentions of doing that and I worry she's gonna put me on the spot the day before and say he won't take a bottle (cos she wouldn't have tried) so she either can't come or has to bring him. I'm spending a lot of money for her dress, hair make up food ect... so deffo don't wanna be let down. But it's not just her that's got kids the ushers have kids and we said no kids. Now I know it's different as she's feeding him but I dunno what to do!? Do I say she can bring him (if my oh agrees too) or do I say she can't. This all sounds so awful when I read it but there will be two other guests that will have newer baby's than that coming and they arnt bringing them. The biggest thing is she's just not talking to me about any of this she's ignoring my messages and not making contact with me. But she's spoken to a friend about it who told her to talk to me and be honest about it all! Torn tbh as she's already not coming on my hen but still hasn't told me this!!! If she just came to me and said look I'm feeding my baby I don't wanna bottle feed him so either he comes or I can't I'd be happier she's being honest rather than dragging it out making out she gonna try and express. I don't expect her to I said it's down to her it's her baby. May I add that we fell out a while ago as she wasn't bothering with me ect any way we made up and I asked her be part of the wedding again so she could have said then I can but il have a baby then, but she didn't she just said it will be fine il sort out. So stressed ?

Would you consider this cheating? What would you do

Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.