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Daneisha Holliman

When did everybody announce they were pregnant? I don't plan on telling my mother or the husband…

When did everybody announce they were pregnant? I don't plan on telling my mother or the husband father till around the 4th of July. I will be 8 weeks. After my first ultra sound & I find out everything is cooking just right , I will then proceed to tell Facebook ( family and friends ) we are hiring a photographer and such for the special moment and I really would like to do it on the 4th as well, maybe plan to tell parents the 3rd. I know the first trimester is very critical, but I feel great and faithful about this pregnancy, being I had a m/c in February. I have this in Gods hands, and instinct wise I feel this baby is going to be healthy and perfect. But I can't help but worry everytime I use the bathroom if there is gonna be blood... Is this a normal thing to worry ? :( I get so excited getting stuff around for our first Father's Day, but part of me is like " calm down! Don't jump the gun !" Any advice? On both? I know instinct wise a mother worries about her child from conception but Jeez... I'm fine and dandy one moment .. The next I'm thinking " what if my baby isn't okay???!"

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missing268user

missing268user

I told at 5 weeks but I'm a big mouth lol:)

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ainsleighsmumma

Ashlynn Sloan

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5 weeks but that's because everyone knew we had been trying for a year, so they were expecting it.

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mrstaylor

Amanda

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Yes it's normal to worry I'm 10 wks and I still worry!

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talbottgirl

felicia

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I didnt tell my parents till I was 8 weeks but I didnt find out till I was 6 weeks and I told my fiance first on his birthday in his birthday card. I didnt post on facebook till I hit my second trimester simply because I didnt feel like telling people yet.

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mommaof2_xoxo

Nina Wimer

Мама сына (4 года), беременна (28 нед.)

I had a miscarriage in Aug 2015, found out I was pregnant in january 2016 at 5 weeks pregnant. told my mom when I was 8 weeks, we told his mom at like 12 weeks (we knew she wouldnt be very accepting). told fb around 13 weeks. but yes being scared especially after a miscarriage is very normal. Im just now starting to feel safe at 26 weeks.

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canaryv

Chelsea

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It's definitely normal to worry, especially after a miscarriage. I miscarried last February and got pregnant this February. I told my husband the same day I found out at 3w5d but with a cute Easter basket lol I couldn't wait. I told my immediate family shortly after having it confirmed by the dr around 5 weeks because even tho I was worried I may mc again, I wanted to have a big support system in place. Here I am at 16w2d and I still get nervous going to the restroom lol I guess I'll be nervous all the way up until I can hold him in my arms. You got this! Leave it in Gods hands and pray thru it :)

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mrs.holliman

Daneisha Holliman

I defiantly catch myself continuously praying for health over our child. I know everything else it out of my hands. I mean, I pray every time I get reminded I'm pregnant. I keep telling myself everything feels perfect As a reassurance, which it does thank god! But I feel like I'm a tad bit crazy .. I'm not relaxing and enjoying early mommy hood like I need too. I keep thinking what ifs. I know around my first ultra sound I won't exactly be out of the clear, but I will feel safer hearing the doctor say baby is healthy and hear their little heart ❤️ I'm very excited and I try not to stress or worry but easier said than done. So much love for my little H already at 4 weeks @canaryv

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mrs.holliman

Daneisha Holliman

And I think a lot of it is it doesn't seem real. I have never experienced this so I'm like " is this real? Can I actually be pregnant ?? No way!! Not me !! " kind of thing. I feel like it's such a blessing that is seems to good to be true so I just think something could go wrong! Does that make sense ?

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canaryv

Chelsea

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What I told myself in the very beginning was, worrying about another mc isn't going to prevent it from happening. Instead I will focus on the positives and take it a day at a time. It really helped me stay sane and enjoy my pregnancy :) & it still doesn't seem real to me lol I still wonder if I'm really having a baby cause I don't feel him yet but I can check on his heart at home with my Doppler. That makes it all the more real. I always wondered if maybe I was reading too much into my body but honestly it knows what it's doing :)

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