do y'all believe moms create clingy babies? my mom thinks i made my baby this way by always carrying…

possibly. and my munchkin will be clingy. they are only babies for such a little time

In most countries and through most of history, women "wore" their babies all day long. That's not always possible in the modern world, but you can't spoil a baby with love. It's really a matter of whether or not it works for you. Trust your mama instincts.

I think it just depends, I have a hard time letting my son "cry it out" but I deff don't pick him up the second he starts crying, I give him a few minutes or try to calm him down while he's still in his bouncer, etc without picking him up. But I am guilty of holding and loving on my baby 24/7.

I worked at a daycare for 4 years in an infant room and you can definitely tell the babies that are held all the time. the parents that let their babies cry it out and don't immediately pick them up are definitely a lot more self-reliant and normally hold their bottles first and all that kind of stuff but you definitely can't over spoil a newborn

Yes you def can. By the time they are 4 months they know. My son if in the room with his dad is fine playing for hrs but as soon as he sees me he screams. He would crawl back inside me if I'd let him. But I do carry him a lot n I'm a sahm and I do breast feeding. N I do spoil him. I know it's my fault.

Cry it out method isn't good for them I read😫

Your a great mom.

I don't breastfeed and my daughter is super clingy she cries with her dad and it hurts his feelings lol