is it okay to tell my family no I do not want you holding my daughter as soon as I get home that I want to be left alone like I was with my son I don't want or need there help unless I ask I just want to be left alone but obviously that makes me a stuck up bitch? ugh I can never win in this house I just want me my hubby an son able to bond an be left alone at least for the 1st 3 months I was exactly like this with my son Idk why anyone is offended im being the same way with my daughter the 1st months are so crucial to me I'm not like an open person wish they understood this because I swear when she's here an they crowd me I'm going to go nuts I swear I feel like if I use the restroom or get a drink turn my back for a second an leave her in her swing or on the bed someone will go pick her up or take her when I said no an that's going to puss me off ugh sorry for the rant lately ladies my family is just to suffocating an annoying