so I went back to l&d last night/this morning for what I thought was labor. it eventually stopped on…

so I went back to l&d last night/this morning for what I thought was labor. it eventually stopped on its own, but when the midwife came in to talk about discharge, I asked if there was anything I could do for the unbearable pain in my hips and back. she told me that "maybe u just shouldn't get pregnant again". when I mentioned I shouldn't have been able to get pregnant to begin woth, her response was "well now u know". bitch is lucky it was 2:30 am and I was exhausted. who the fuck do u think u are telling me I shouldn't have any more kids just because my 1st pregnancy is full of complications?