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This was just inspired again by a few posts. I know that sometimes our husbands, boyfriends can appear hurtful or dick…

This was just inspired again by a few posts. I know that sometimes our husbands, boyfriends can appear hurtful or dick heads lol when baby is coming or after baby. Please take a step back and realize they are just like you, full of emotions and their own issues. There are so many articles about post Pardum depression or women support but not much about when a guy becomes a father on purpose or on accident!! They take out their frustrations out on you just like you do to them. It is all hard for all involved. Give them a chance to come around, step in their shoes, and know they care but have their own way of adjusting. Some guys are better at it than others. Give them a chance!! Give your child a chance for a family. Get past the rough patch and it is worth it!

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mommastone

KristinaМама сына-младенца

@su burnmom2, that isn't the point. The point was to say that it isn't all about the mothers emotions, struggles or mental health. Most women don't ignore their natural instinct to take care of their young. So yeah, if a mother were to not do anything for their child, they are a bad mom. That's not what I am talking about.

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lareina_kk

Kay KayМама троих детей

but if we said we needed time and ignored our responsibilities we will be called a bad mom. dad's get too many excuses. I agree post partum can be in men too

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mommastone

KristinaМама сына-младенца

Yes! It is sad because a lot of people split and I feel it is because we don't focus on men as well. They think and do things differently. @denise1493 @amaperalta03

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amaperalta03

AmandaМама дочки (1 год), беременна (25 нед.)

Amen sister. We sometimes forget men have feelings too !

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denise1493

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I've heard that a lot of men actually go through depression after baby is born also. And it's worse because no one ever asks how they are feeling/doing, they just focus on mom.

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I find it amusing how some people are so quick to come on your post to tell you that your method is wrong. If what you…

I find it amusing how some people are so quick to come on your post to tell you that your method is wrong. If what you do works for you than cudos. There is no need to get in a tight about somebody else post. If there post doesn't apply to you than just keep it moving. I am 36 yo and do not have time for hormonal women who's lacking attention from home and need someone to take it out on. Take your personal problem up with the right somebody!