my boyfriend of six years hates my guts. I'm pregnant with our first. he thinks I've done this on purpose. not true. he told me he has no emotional attachment when I asked him if he wants me to leave. I just moved in in March. he just bought first house.so much going on. I work full time and I go to school half time. I'm 30 he is 36. I'm.almost 13 weeks. people say he'll love the baby.when he meets the baby fir the first time but I don't know if I can believe it at this point. I don't want to leave. what if I wait to long to leave. I.don't know what to do.
im sorry for what you are going through. i read a article before that men go through different emotions knowing the fact they are going to be a father. my boyfriend was stressing worried everything else. now hes the happiest men ever loves both of us.
thank you ladies. it's all to much for me at times. I don't know what I'm doing and I wish he could be supportive. I want it to work but there's nothing I can.do or say to help him
Stress brings out the worse. I say wait it out. You know how we have so many articles about us women about stress, insecurities or doubts? Well men have those to and act out sometimes. Some feel very scared to be fathers just like us. I say try to connect with him and understand what he is feeling and believe me, things will change. Change can be slow but worth fighting for a relationship. We have ups and downs or get in ruts. It gets better. Give him a breather and he will come around if you have patience to wait.
Well if he wasn't strapped up stuff like that can happen so he needs to grow up and act like he close to 40 and even if it wasn't an accident shit it takes 2 grown adults to have unprotected sex. So my love he will be fine and so will you. The nerve of him smh @lemon85