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Charlene
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Need some advice! Caoimhes dad been threatening to take me to court if I don't let him take her without me being there…

Need some advice! Caoimhes dad been threatening to take me to court if I don't let him take her without me being there (never seen her Til she was 7 weeks old hadn't heard from him since I was 7 weeks pregnant, doesn't pay for her, isn't on birth certificate! ) will it b easy for him to do this! He still gets to see her but with me there ! He's only met her 5 times

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theosmummy16

Zoe

Мама сына-младенца

I went to register my little boy yesterday, im in the same boat as his dad is not on the birth certificate. He has no parental rights!! xxx

leigh-amyxo

Leigh Messenger

Мама сына-младенца

he won't get far hun because when I registered dylan 3 weeks ago she said if the father is there when baby is registered then they get parental rights but if there not then they don't so I'm glad my OH was with me xxx

laura.pm

Laura

Мама двоих (младенец)

@theasmummy, it used to be that even if they were on the birth certificate they didn't have any parental rights unless you were married. that's changed fairly recently though. @cmcdon203 , I completely wouldn't hand my baby over to people that I know let alone strangers. he might be her dad but it's just insane to think about leaving the baby with someone that's not been around and you don't know. firstly I would explain that to him and suggest that you start to get to know his family. it would probably be awkward but if they're going to be around your daughter for the rest of her life, you should know them. secondly I wouldn't budge until she was much older and she knew him. however, you could suggest a contact centre or something so he can't just take her anywhere. as he's not on the certificate though he doesn't have much of an argument.

hawkie75

Steph

Мама двоих (12 лет, 13 лет), ждёт третьего

@theasmummy, hi Hun, I just remember after we split up he asked me to sign a form to give him parental rights, so he must have not had any. This was nearly 13 years ago mind, the form never ever got signed, there was no need in the e d, we get on great and my son is 50/50 with both of us xxx

theasmummy

Jenny

Мама троих детей

@hawkie75, how come your ex had no parental rights to your son? Surely if he's on the birth certificate he would? Just asking as I'm not married to my daughters dad. X

zaralee71

zara

Мама двоих (2 года, 8 лет), ждёт третьего

tell him to go ahead, he won't get very far as he isn't on the birth certificate. It's probably an empty threat any way hun xx

courtniegeexo

Courtnie

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (35 нед.)

I wouldn't either Hun, I'd advise contact with you or one of your close family there until you are comfortable xx @cmcdon203

cmcdon203

Charlene

Мама дочки-младенца

Thing is he's allowed to see her Iv never stopped that ( well he's only known her 4 weeks) but his family are strangers to me so is he tbh I can't just hand my baby over to strangers xx

hawkie75

Steph

Мама двоих (12 лет, 13 лет), ждёт третьего

With her***

hawkie75

Steph

Мама двоих (12 лет, 13 лет), ждёт третьего

@cmcdon203, I wouldn't have thought he has any rights what so ever, not being on birth certificate, so doubt he would get far in court, he needs your permission to do anything with get, my ex was on birth certificate of my son but cause we weren't married he still had no parental rights, so I think you will be ok x

courtniegeexo

Courtnie

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (35 нед.)

If he isn't on the birth certificate he legally doesn't have any rights over her...this happened to my mum with my real dad and they got told that exact thing xx

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